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Time approaches

Dmrman

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It's been a while since an update, things have been very trying and exhausting yet time doesn't stand still it continues to progress even when we are not ready, it moves. Situations unexpected, to try and spoil,  dreams and Happiness. What can be done to deflect or slow down approaching disaster...??? apparently just adapting and taking the good and filter out the bad ..! It's only 11 days until My Boys wedding, they have managed to juggle and maneuver and manage their plans yet still work and prepare for college classes. I have tried my best to accomplish and finish projects for the Wedding since the news they wanted at home in our yard... while some are finished others remain to be completed. complications with My good eye after surgery slowly demanding my time, instead of allowing assistance in the completion of projects. yes, it is Frustrating and could cause one to dwell on its completion. I wanted nothing but the Best for their wedding... while dealing with the possibilities it wouldn't be finished, I had come to a major revelation...nothing new, nothing that hasn't evolved before and certainly not the tragedy my mind was generating within my head. the wedding will still happen, and just the joy of the glorious day itself will not cease because the "PERGOLA" never got finished, the garden was never completed and your eye needs more surgery. not relevant... what is relevant is that the wedding is all about Love, and new beginnings, and happiness, joy, and health for the two young one's joining together to bond in and through that love... I had to realize this is not about me... how selfish tragedy want's to steal and pillage all our happiness ... So My task is done for the moment, my focus on the Magnificent Wonder of Two people Hopelessly in Love and that is something money can't buy...!!! Hugz and love to you all, life is but for a moment...!!:heart::heart::hug:tumblr_pas7alSURg1xxh83ho1_400.jpg.dd487178d46b0158778816b6a0a23a74.jpg

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Bob, your love for the boys shines through very strongly in your desire to make things perfect for their upcoming wedding.

 

That the yard will not be exactly as you had hoped is okay, the day will will still be beautiful and full of joy and happiness. You being there and celebrating with them is what they want, what they need, and ultimately, what they will remember forever. 

 

PS: I can say this with certainty for having been one of the main participants in organizing a backyard wedding. What the place looked like is not what I remember, it was family and friends gathered together having a great time. 

 

still feel bad about dumping a can - a small can! - of black paint in the rose bushes when I was painting the wrought iron railing. Oops....

 

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8 hours ago, Reader1810 said:

Bob, your love for the boys shines through very strongly in your desire to make things perfect for their upcoming wedding.

 

That the yard will not be exactly as you had hoped is okay, the day will will still be beautiful and full of joy and happiness. You being there and celebrating with them is what they want, what they need, and ultimately, what they will remember forever. 

 

PS: I can say this with certainty for having been one of the main participants in organizing a backyard wedding. What the place looked like is not what I remember, it was family and friends gathered together having a great time. 

 

still feel bad about dumping a can - a small can! - of black paint in the rose bushes when I was painting the wrought iron railing. Oops....

 

Thanks, Reader... I really finally got the Picture all is not lost because the love outshines the incomplete areas making it just as Beautiful and Glorious without the completion of minor issues the Ace in the hole being love itself...I am positive it will be As wonderful as the love present there... not by the sticks and stones :lol::heart::hug: ( they were not black roses were they...?:gikkle:)

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34 minutes ago, Dmrman said:

 ( they were not black roses were they...?:gikkle:)h

This happened so long ago I can't remember what colour the roses were, but, thankfully, they didn't turn black if you know what I mean.... 😌

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