Or maybe even

It's okay to be a bit irrational about it all. Maybe not to the principle parties, since getting them to admit they were wrong won't actually do you any good, and will damage any prospects you'll have of being friends with them down the road. Yes, Andrew or FF should have given you a heads up, knowing damn well that it would bother you, as it would anyone. That they didn't means they're a bit cowardly, but as I said, forcing them to face that isn't going to do anyone any real good. So my advice is to move on from that moment. Remember it, especially if they want to be friends later, but move on.

In the meantime, call up the biggest drama queen you know, buy a tub of blackberry ice cream, and spend the afternoon watching Buffy the Vampire Slayer. You're rational, realist approach is probably healthier, but I have more fun wallowing in the feeling until feeling that way becomes completely ridiculous.

 

Or maybe even

 

It's okay to be a bit irrational about it all. Maybe not to the principle parties, since getting them to admit they were wrong won't actually do you any good, and will damage any prospects you'll have of being friends with them down the road. Yes, Andrew or FF should have given you a heads up, knowing damn well that it would bother you, as it would anyone. That they didn't means they're a bit cowardly, but as I said, forcing them to face that isn't going to do anyone any real good. So my advice is to move on from that moment. Remember it, especially if they want to be friends later, but move on.

 

In the meantime, call up the biggest drama queen you know, buy a tub of blackberry ice cream, and spend the afternoon watching Buffy the Vampire Slayer. You're rational, realist approach is probably healthier, but I have more fun wallowing in the feeling until feeling that way becomes completely ridiculous.

So since Conner proclaimed me The Biggest Drama Queen he's met, when can i come over and watch buffy???

*Hugs* Hang in there Kevin, your heart is made of pure gold, i just wish their were more guys like you in this world!!!

But anywho, are we feeling hangoverish yet? you did said some wonderful things last night, i'm sure you won't remember *Giggles*

-Mike

Hey Gabe

It's okay to be a bit irrational about it all. Maybe not to the principle parties, since getting them to admit they were wrong won't actually do you any good, and will damage any prospects you'll have of being friends with them down the road. Yes, Andrew or FF should have given you a heads up, knowing damn well that it would bother you, as it would anyone. That they didn't means they're a bit cowardly, but as I said, forcing them to face that isn't going to do anyone any real good. So my advice is to move on from that moment. Remember it, especially if they want to be friends later, but move on.

Well, I really think I'm done with FF, much to the chagrin of good friend since the three of us used to be pretty tight

It was his decision and I said if he ever wanted to work it out he could look me up. I'm not sure if I still feel that way though. After all this, and the more I think about it, I just don't think what he did to me was fair, even if his intentions weren't to hurt me. He was a good friend, but the more I think about the more I realize that perhaps he was right: our relationship did have several other fundamental flaws, and apart from that I just don't think I could trust him again.

Admittedly right now I'm just pissed, but I think even when I'm not anymore - and I will get over it - I'll still feel the same way intellectually.

As for Andrew...I don't know why but I just can't be mad at him. Possibly because he's so sweet and guileless. I'm a little hurt and disappointed that he didn't tell me, but at the same time for his sake I really do hope things work out for them, and I definitely still wish him the best. It just couldn't work out between us right now, but in two or three years I'd be happy to try again if we still know each other, are both available, and a few things have changed.

The only reason I wouldn't still be his friend, because I do still care about him and trust him, is because of FF (who most definitely hurt me worse in all of this). I just think it would be weird trying to have a meaningful friendship with him while he's dating FF. It's weird, I still care about FF and wish him the best too, and I have no doubt that he wasn't trying to hurt me, nor can I possibly deny what a good friend he was and all the things he did for me. But it really is over as far as I'm concerned...

In the meantime, call up the biggest drama queen you know, buy a tub of blackberry ice cream, and spend the afternoon watching Buffy the Vampire Slayer. You're rational, realist approach is probably healthier, but I have more fun wallowing in the feeling until feeling that way becomes completely ridiculous.

LOL, well I did my own equivalent. I took it easy and treated myself to several things I enjoy

Thanks for the kind comment and advice

-Kevin

 

Or maybe even

 

It's okay to be a bit irrational about it all. Maybe not to the principle parties, since getting them to admit they were wrong won't actually do you any good, and will damage any prospects you'll have of being friends with them down the road. Yes, Andrew or FF should have given you a heads up, knowing damn well that it would bother you, as it would anyone. That they didn't means they're a bit cowardly, but as I said, forcing them to face that isn't going to do anyone any real good. So my advice is to move on from that moment. Remember it, especially if they want to be friends later, but move on.

 

In the meantime, call up the biggest drama queen you know, buy a tub of blackberry ice cream, and spend the afternoon watching Buffy the Vampire Slayer. You're rational, realist approach is probably healthier, but I have more fun wallowing in the feeling until feeling that way becomes completely ridiculous.

 

So since Conner proclaimed me The Biggest Drama Queen he's met, when can i come over and watch buffy???

 

*Hugs* Hang in there Kevin, your heart is made of pure gold, i just wish their were more guys like you in this world!!!

 

But anywho, are we feeling hangoverish yet? you did said some wonderful things last night, i'm sure you won't remember *Giggles*

 

-Mike

LOL! You can come over whenever you're ready, Mike! Just catch the next plan lol

And aww, thanks for the sweet words!

Nope, no hangover at all. I'm completely immune to those At worse (and it's almost a plus since it never happens to me otherwise) I wake up early and don't want to go back to sleep.

Take care and have an awesome day (well actually I'm talking to ya on MSN anyway )

-Kevin

Awww, poor Kevin . No matter how much we don't want it to bug us, it usually does when an ex starts dating someone else.

You're only human having a little green monster in you. But while yours is about the size of a flea, mine is a huge mo fo that has public hissy fits .

Anywho, the logical/supportive side of you will prevail.

Take Care,

Vic

Awww, poor Kevin . No matter how much we don't want it to bug us, it usually does when an ex starts dating someone else.

 

You're only human having a little green monster in you. But while yours is about the size of a flea, mine is a huge mo fo that has public hissy fits .

 

Anywho, the logical/supportive side of you will prevail.

 

Take Care,

 

Vic

Thanks Vic

In other news, I've got some things I need to take care of and I'm going to be away from GA completely until after the New Year.

I hope you guys all have a wonderful Christmas, and good luck with everything going on in your lives!

Love ya all

-Kevin