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I'm so tired of being made out to be the bad guy. Hubby's sister had a family emergency and Hubby about half agreed to take her 3 dogs. Since he wouldnt be home, I voiced my concerns about me being able to safely handle 6 dogs. My 3 dogs (all of them medium to large breed) and her 3 dogs, 2 of which are also big dogs that I haven't been around much, 1 of which has showed aggression in the past, and none of the 3 are up to date on shots. If it was just me here, it might be different, but I also have Baby J to think about. *sigh*
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@Puppilull Thank you hon. And really, it probably would be doable, it would just be extremely difficult with my dogs and my little one. And to be honest, not safe for anyone or the dogs. Don't worry, I'm not caving. I feel bad that we can't help, but with it just being me here, it's just not an option.
Thank you everyone! I really debated with myself if I was being completely unreasonable, but I really didn't feel like I was. It wasn't that I didn't want to help, but with Hubby not being home, there was just no way I could handle it on my own. And don't get me wrong, my husband is an awesome guy and he takes good care of me and Baby J, just occasionally stuff like this comes up. I think a lot of it this time was, he wanted to help in some way, and thought taking the dogs was the way he could do it. I don't think he realized, in the moment, that he wouldn't be around to help and it would all fall on me. Whether or not he realizes that now, I'm not sure, but we are talking again, so that's a plus.
Again, thank you for letting me vent and for assuring me that I wasn't being unreasonable.