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    South western Michigan
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    music, Play piano, counsel teens from abuse, (work As teen recovery counselor Gay) Art, Design construction, walking, hiking, camping,( I LOVE the Beach) love to cook, (I can surprise you !)

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  1. Well, it's the weekend, No therapy ***Crap...πŸ€”*** I used to regret going... But now I have to wait till Monday to see my cute young blond therapist...πŸ™„πŸ˜ΆπŸ˜£ not good...!!!Β  Weekends are boring, I get visitors and the boys come and stay longer but the clock ticks... Waiting for his smile...ahhhhhhh...πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜πŸ˜†πŸ˜†

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    2. Page Scrawler

      Page Scrawler

      Poor Bob.Β  Β :hug: Β There's plenty of fish in the sea, you know.

    3. Dmrman

      Dmrman

      Ohhh... Yea, πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€” I have considered all... Actually it may be how he encourages to get us "Out the door"... πŸ€” so as he is using his "charm" I am taking advantage of the view...πŸ€”πŸ€” so yeah I know it will end, but it does give me the incentive till it does end...πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜πŸ˜„πŸ˜„

    4. spikey582

      spikey582

      God Bob, I forgot how much your posts made me smileΒ 

  2. I must say, I am proud...😏 I walked halfway down the parallel bars today with no assistance...πŸ™„ annnnd got a sweet smile, and a wink from my therapist...😊(god if I were younger....*******😢😢😢)

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    2. dughlas

      dughlas

      Congrats Bob

    3. Edward

      Edward

      I have so many jokes I could make about your therapist...Β 

      I am glad you are doing much better and getting your sea legs... wait I work for the Army so your land legs? I digress...

      let us know what circus act you join so we can watch on the bars.Β :whistle::gikkle:

      You know I mean well.... At least I think I doΒ :hug:

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    4. Caz Pedroso

      Caz Pedroso

      Well Done :hug:Β 

      And i hope you winked back ;)Β 

  3. Thirdly...what can I say...?? πŸ€” but a UUUUUUGE THANKS for your support to the boys, they even said you left a very interesting menu for me to try...πŸ˜πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ (still looking for it) hugs xoxoxo

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    1. Thirdly

      Thirdly

      I was talking about the crazy new cereal flavors for the "Honey Bunches of Oats" brand...one was "Chicken & Waffles" and the other was "Maple Bacon Donuts."Β  They sound insane but I still want to try them. Sorry for the late response, I've been going crazy at work. Glad you guys are all doing better over there!

    2. Dmrman

      Dmrman

      Hmm...maple bacon donuts...😁😁😁okay I have to find where to get me some.??😊😊 No worries about quick responses...you have a life too and well, they still hurt me too much lol big hugs,πŸ˜—

  4. "SPIKEY...!!!πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ˜„πŸ˜‰πŸ˜€πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜„πŸ˜"...missed you...πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜— hope everything is splendid...???πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜πŸ˜

    1. spikey582

      spikey582

      Bobber!!!Β :glomp:Β :kiss:

      Everything is going pretty well. Β Lots of things taking my focus right now, but I’m still here frequently.

      More importantly, I’m so happy to hear from you buddy! Β Glad you’re awake and able to jump on here. Β Hope you continue to get better and better. Β 

  5. Hey... Guys, you have no idea how much I missed you all...πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜— just hope you had enough time to regroup, it looks like you have and received me back with open arms. I am glad yet still sad that what Dennis pulled has not affected our friendship. I was worried and felt so bad when I myself found out... Thanks for being understanding and lovingπŸ™„πŸ™„ you guys are the best...!!! I am sorry for being the pigeon to his "Game" and embroiling you all so he could get his Jollies and leave the nasty taste left. πŸ˜ΆπŸ˜‘πŸ˜‘πŸ˜’ but... I do and will always care enough for people to try and help them... it just does not always work as planπŸ˜‘ and it hasn't been the first time and I am sure not the last...😢 but we have deduced it was the prime reason for my lengthy coma as I relived it over and over never-ending nightmare... But my boy Kyle was smart enough to figure it out, and seek help from some on this site as to approaching and getting me to know during my coma by talk, tears, and anger😲😒😠 to get it through my head... And you all in your compassion helped and I am forever indebted to all of you that shared your thoughts with the boys...πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜— I ernestly love you all and thank you for your kindness and forgiveness, and love shared with me, and my boys... You have all Truly impacted their lives and gained their trust, and love...πŸ˜˜πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜™πŸ˜šπŸ˜š so with that said...the tormenters are here to take me to therapy, so later...πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜—Β 

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    2. dughlas

      dughlas

      I'm saddened that you in your great kindness were taken advantage of. I'm extremely joyful that you have Randy and Kyle to remind you of the good thatΒ enormous heart of yours has accomplished.

    3. Dmrman

      Dmrman

      Thanks to all..πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜—i love you GIF

    4. Caz Pedroso

      Caz Pedroso

      :hug:Β 

  6. Happy Birthday!

    1. Dmrman

      Dmrman

      Thanks so much...πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜— I have this song in my head today...πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€” "Another one bites the Dust" lol where do they go...???πŸ˜πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

  7. Happy birthday, young man!

    1. Dmrman

      Dmrman

      Thanks a bunch Marty... Funny you said "Young man" my mind says it's 20 too bad it can't convince my body of that...πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ but in lieu of earlier events...πŸ€” I will let the battle continue and see who wins...πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜„πŸ˜†πŸ˜†

  8. Froggy...!!!!! Hugs and much love...BobberπŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

  9. bored zzz GIF by Dark IglooΒ glad you have visited during my "Vacation" it means a lot to me...πŸ˜—

  10. Hi Caz and family...πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜— thanks for all the kind words and love... Be glad when I get some normality again...😲😲😲😲😨😨 love you guys😚😚😚 

    1. Caz Pedroso

      Caz Pedroso

      :hug:Β :kiss:Β 

  11. Hey friends: Randy and I both want to Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for your compassion and Love while waiting for dad to come out of his coma. It means so much that we had you to just be there for us! Dad has a long road of therapy, and it will be a while before he will be home. We are leaving for Virginia to find housing, and well I have a job interview there on June 7, I am hoping the best that we accomplish all we need too. Dad has said at this point in time he prefers not to move there with us, which we do understand his reasoning for his decision, just that we will be worried about him while we are gone. He said he would come visit and stay at times which does make it easier but still? Any how dad is allowed some internet time in moderation so we are counting on you to keep him honest in that area! He is kind of bored but has to have eye checked for complications and is requested to not watch, read, or be on internet long periods of time. He keeps telling us we need to join GA and maybe we will just now is not the time, way too much going on in our lives but we have been grateful and indebted to you all, LoveπŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜— and will think of you often, and get on when we can. We are grateful he has you for support. Please continue to be the great people you are it is the foundation of GA. We must head out for Va. It's quite a drive!!Β  Please accept our love and hugsπŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ€—πŸ€— Randy and Kyle

    1. Page Scrawler

      Page Scrawler

      Hello, boys!Β  Β :hug: Β :kiss: Β You're so welcome for the love. You and Bob will always be a part of our crazy-but-loads-of-fun family here on GA. This place has many wonderful, creative people, and the stories are brilliantly crafted. Whether or not you decide to join us officially is up to you, and we understand that real life has to come first, but hopefully we'll see you soon.Β  Β :yes:

  12. Hello friends at GA as expected Sweet Defiance came through for us and as you know Dad has waken up! I have much to tell you: first he came back about 4 days after mothers day, but as we have been very, very, Very busy, I had forgotten to pay the internet bill and other events we had no wifi for a while ( my fault and I am so sorry) it was my intentions to share the "next" with you much earlier, but I had to share with Defiance what I am getting ready to tell you, and this was the catalyst to the whole situation that transpired, and I am now almost 100% sure why it took Dad so long to come out of his coma. Please bear with me, humor me, and let this sink in. Around or just prior to Thanksgiving dad was acting "funny" when he would get off of GA and it persisted, we had felt him at least "concerned" and somewhat upset and had continued to ask him questions, but he refused at the time to say anything other than he was curious about a new person on the site by the name of Szabi and he had a "bad" feeling. It continues as Christmas approached and left, and we both saw his concern really mounting and became frustrated and worried. Then New Year's Eve he was on GA, and began to get mad so we came down from our room to talk with him as we could hear him upstairs and it had gotten really loud almost in an argumentive sense. We came down to an angry environment sat down and forced him to Spill it to us what was going on!!! He sat and just stared for a few as we waited to hear what the problem was, what we heard next opened up a Pandora's box and a lot of emotions began in all of us. We were appalled and pissed as well. He began talking and said that he had suspicions for a while and started following Szabi and would check his profile updates and his comments and said it sounded familiar and finally he realized that this Szabi was indeed "Dennis" and dad confronted him, and was trying to give Dennis every chance to explain "why". he said he called him out when this Szabi had left a comment on the blog dad had written about "Dennis tragedy" and just the way he had commented dad said he PM Szabi and told him he knew who he was and why would he pull such a rotten trick, so getting nowhere with Dennis (which he admitted he was) dad was mad because Dennis had used him in a deceptive way and he had involved GA into the deception, and caused dad to lie to his friends. Dad spent many days trying to decide how to share it with you all, and it began to affect his health, the day he went to the doctors was due to him having stomach issues over all the crap that had happened. Unfortunately, he was never able to share. And the rest you know except, that the Doctor had told us that dads failure to awake could also be due to a traumatic situation that had happened, as I was thinking about It I decided to confide In Defiance what I thought the reason for him not waking was due to the situation with Dennis, he was internally stressed over the whole situation and so I was sure this was why. I never told Randy what I thought until I had talked to Defiance, and she sent me some very sound advice that really was confirmation to what I was already thinking. So after hearing from her and she told me to read dad the text she sent as well as other things I shared for a few days redundantly the text and her words and well, it did sink in and did cause him to wake. He came too and looked lost, even looked at me like who was I??? And well the rest will play out later I just wanted to share dads "dilemma" with the whole thing he has been hurt by what Dennis did and it was compounded with his unintentional lie but none the less a lie to his friends. Dad has no idea I have shared this with you all but I felt I needed to, and I am quite certain when he gets back on he will share with you also. He felt so, so bad and it bothered him into a sickness, that he had lied to you all by allowing Dennis to use him as a tool to deceive you his friends. Umm, I think he thought he may be outcast due to it, just my guess, but dad is not easily shaken but this time he was. He has mentioned it, and after again reading the text from Defiance he has a little better picture of what to expect. I want to share more of his condition and what he has to endure now but, I will let this sink in first, and hope I am still living after I tell him that I told you about it 😊😁lol may be up for adoption again πŸ˜‚ any takers?? Xoxoxo Kyle and RandyπŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜—

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    2. Bucket1

      Bucket1

      Big hugs Bobber. Welcome back

    3. Caz Pedroso

      Caz Pedroso

      Welcome Back Bob, you were very missed :hug: :kiss:Β 

    4. dughlas

      dughlas

      Oh what a wonderful surprise. Welcome back.

  13. Hey GA thanks for sticking with us. We have been so damn busy, Randy enrolled (he had to leave me for three days to enroll in his classes ) whichmakes me empty inside when he does Dad is still "sleeping" no change and we need to both go and look at some houses there. So really no firm updates yet other than we miss him... love, you all and your kind words... xoxoxo Kyle and RandyπŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜—

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    2. dughlas

      dughlas

      Thanks for the update. Love and best wishes for all of you.

    3. Page Scrawler

      Page Scrawler

      Thanks for the update, boys. We love you guys so much, and hope Bob will wake up in the near future. Good luck to you all!Β  Β :hug: Β :kiss:

    4. Thirdly

      Thirdly

      Been a while since we've had any other updates from you guys (it's understandable, given the circumstances). I hope you two are hanging in there.Β 

  14. Hey...sorry it hasΒ been a moment since I updated. Dad is now off a few machines, but no changes. we talk and share everyday with him, it has been just like he is SLEEPING and can wake up at any moment he just hasn'tΒ  yet. Some things are said redundantly in hopes that it will connect...! A good friend of Randy's called and they spent a few days together which was needed to clarify why Randy had pushed him away, Randy was just trying to protect him from the abuse Randy was going through, and didn'tΒ  want to see Dave get embroiled in for fear he may get hurt too. So I let them have some time while I stayed with dad. Got his bills taken care of on line from his room while I was with dad . We did sell the house and we are at this point leasing it from the developer's, they have given us time to look for a new place (which is needed with all going on) I did come home last week to a very serious discussion between Randy and Dave, they didnt hear me come in. Dave was trying to move in on my man, and Randy just told him he was very happily married and if he came here with intentions of trying to break us apart he could leave, that was my cue as I entered walked over and gave my husband a big long kiss. Seems Dave figured he gad no chances took the hint stood up and said he had to go! The last we have seen him, and I told Randy I did hear and the remarks and was glad he said what he did. So life is good, even as dad goes, he is not suffering in anyway, Randy is registered in Virginia for College in the Fall and life goes on. We are thinking of looking for a house there and trying to find out what will need to happen to transfer dad to Virginia when that time approaches or even if we can...? Right now we are both exhausted and tired and plan to just take a couple days for us to have some deep passionate time with each other. I waited till Randy realized Dad is stable and more "sleeping " as, the Doctors put it and it would be fine to take a few days away which we both really need to re-group. So ahh Dad is stabileΒ  we are trying to refresh our bodies and stamina all the best information I have and share for now "life goes on" as Dad would say "things will happen don't panic... just go through it...!) Never knew what all that meant until now !!! Sounds like a wise plan love and hugs to all Kyle and Randy πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜—

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    3. Page Scrawler

      Page Scrawler

      Love all three of you, Randy, Kyle, and Bob.Β  Β :hug: Β :hug: Β :hug: Β Thank you for the update, and I'm glad that Bob is improving.

    4. Caz Pedroso
  15. Thanks for your input I have read them over and over and all have been encouraging. I did check with the doctor about an eeg, and he has assured me it shows brain activity (thanks kitt) IΒ also asked if the equipment dad is on is helping to sustain him in anyway. He told me that some may to a degree and that would be the "fight" part others were not crucial to his existence and I really spent the day asking many questions to gain some clarity of the task and possibilities and while it is becoming clearer to me after Randy and I talked my gut instincts have given me answers, and words to share with dad. You all have been so kind to humor my pleas for your insight and wisdom and it has made me do my homework to find the best choices for dad. Randy and I share and converse but I feel I will need to make whatever decisionsΒ  are to be made, and convince Randy to trust me in what that may be. I THOUGHT ABOUT the cheeseburger kitt and well it'sΒ  possible I may sneak one in along with some popcornΒ  and see if it works?Β Β DEFIANCE did contact me (thank you to whoever notified her) she is a sweet and caring women and I know they have a bond. She also gave me some help in what to ask and all of your help is GREATLY APPRECIATED I feel that its all instrumental not just in finding avenues and support for dad, but even in your support of RandyΒ Β and IπŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜—πŸ˜— Defince told me to tell him " TO FIGHT DAMMIT" but it also hit me to apply it to our own personal thoughts I do keep telling that to all of us and has helped Randy and I toΒ keep focus. So while nothing has changed with dad "YET" it has helped to to regain a second wind forΒ Us, and finally I have asked for anothers doctor opinion and that gives us more hope I had asked about pain and does he feel it ? We were glad to know that he's at least at the point not suffering! So it off to the Hospital for another day thank you again,Β  I know I keep saying that but really I don'tΒ  think we can say it enough or rightfully share our deep love and appreciation for all of you. Love and hugs Kyle, Randy and dad

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    2. Thirdly

      Thirdly

      Much, much love to you guys! Keep hanging in there.

    3. dughlas

      dughlas

      Glad you're feeling you haveΒ a better understanding of the situation. We're here for you guys if/when you need us.

    4. Edward

      Edward

      Thank you for keeping us updated to Bob... I can't even begin to tell you conversations I've had with him. Keep going strong. We are here for youΒ :heart:

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