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shellshocked


Camy

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Two days ago the guy I love said to me

"When I first saw you I fell in love with you, but now we're such good friends I don't really fancy you anymore."

We've had a relationship that has passed through seduction (he's 2 years older than I am and I was naieve), love, living together, living apart, and throughout it all we've had a solid friendship that just got better and better until yesterday.

My heart is in so many pieces it feels unrepairable.

I just don't know what to do.

During rehearsals today he kept asking me what was wrong, if I was ok. He obviously doesn't realise what he said. Do I tell him he's broken my heart, or do I pretend everything is fine, or do I quietly let him go?

 

This is my story and I want a happy ending. please.

 

C

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LittleBuddhaTW

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Tell him how you feel ... you may never get another chance, and you would probably end up regretting it for the rest of your life ...

 

Buddha

JamesSavik

Posted

I agree with LittleBuddha. Your friend has done the typical insensitive male thing of opening his mouth without thinking. The only way you'll know if he was being daft or serious is to talk to him.

BoyNeedsTherapy

Posted

Yeah, at least if you tell him how you're feeling you won't always be wondering what would have happened if you'd talked to him about it.

Camy

Posted

A consensus.

I guess It's better to know for sure one way or the other.

 

Thanks

 

Camy

JamesSavik

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I'm hoping that things work out. You're a nice guy Camy and deserve better (ven though I was put off by the "Side-Show Bob" avatar for a while).

Luc

Posted

Those are horrible words to hear when you love someone. :hug: He probably doesn

Camy

Posted

Thanks for all the seriously good advice. You guys, and this place is incredible.

I'm getting teary, and I have to keep a stiff upper lip. Arf arf, pah.

 

C

 

And just what's wrong with side show bob? ;)

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