Well I do NOT live in the "gay ghetto" as you call it, I live in Dallas proper, we were living in the suburbs for a while, and no matter where we have lived there are a high number of gay and or bi persons around. Do you intereact with people, young persons, much? I have noticed alot of younger people (ages 20-30) are identifying as bi lately, or even identifying as just "sexual" - this 10% thing might have been true once, and that is MIGHT, but I even doubt that, sure of course there are more heterosexuals and repressed homsexuals living as heterosexuals than there are OUT gay and bi people, but the active word here is OUT. Alot of persons nowadays either are not out or don't feel the need to come out for whatever reason and that ofcourse throws the actual figures off. So, stand by to be amazed!