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  1. Well, I have one foot out the closet, one foot in, I guess. Since I don't get to see my friends in real life anymore, I'd been open about my orientation over the Internet to them (and everyone else) for a long time, and I would always just elude my mother's questions about my sexuality, so for years I was not lesbian, nor straight, nor asexual, but "wink wink nod nod". So, when I actually told my mom, it just sort of slipped out. She was driving me home from class, and I was all fired about gay rights and whatnot and was ranting on and on about it, when she suddenly pulled a fast one and asked me if I'd figured out what I was yet. She tends to do that. The conversation went like such: "Have you figured out what you are yet?" *Grunts* "Bisexual." *Claps hands to mouth; mother loses control of steering wheel but regains hold.* "Oh, okay then." "Yeah." Awkward, yes? However, I still say that I'm partway in the closet because I've never mentioned it to my dad. I think he'd be okay about it, but sometimes I'm unsure of what his beliefs really are. And, well, I'm starting to doubt more and more whether I'm that bisexual at all, hence, my confession wasn't entirely accurate.
  2. Hmm... well, both have their pros and cons. For open relationships, if it's just some little fling and neither partner really cares about the other, then it might work, but I would still steer clear from it. I would think that if you tried to pick up a guy or girl and they learned that you were in such a relationship, they might find you flaky and not want to date you. Unless you're getting something out of it, I wouldn't go in that direction. The way I understand polygamy is actually that it's the marital version of polyamory, being that it's a group of people who are in a committed relationship together, although there are many offsets of it, so I'm not entirely sure whether you can be married and in an open relationship, and if that's poly or not... Okay, I'm confusing myself. XD Of course there are benefits to be had, such as stronger financial security and more people to help with chores, but it does require a huge amount of cooperation from everybody involved, and the majority of the world isn't polyamorous, either. Overall, I think either is only best for unserious experimentation if you're predominantly monoamorous.
  3. Okay, I don't really cry that often in movies, but "Up" brought tears to my eyes the first few minutes into the film.
  4. Yes, and of questionable benefits to one's health! Equal? :< Maybe it's best that I don't know what that is. XD Quite catchy. It just sort of rolls off the tongue. Hmm, well, I'm sure that we have all had our most special friends, be it animal or person. I feel that when we remember our pleasant memories with them, it reminds us of the true happiness in life, and that there will be more to come. ^.^ I know that you'll never forget your dear Choppy. Although you will never be able to completely replace him, I hope you find a new puppy soon who'll touch you in a similar way.
  5. Poor Barbies! Glad to see I'm not alone. I'm getting help for it, though, heh-heh.
  6. Internet. I'm definitely addicted to that! GA's lookin' like it'll become one. Also, ingesting non-food items, but that's kind of weird, and I really ought to stop...
  7. Hmm... I chose "other". At this point in time, I'm unsure of how I would define "happiness", but I think if I had to say something right away, it would be the ability to understand. I'd just love to always be able to walk in another person's shoes, see their points of view, and never dislike someone ever again. I suppose that's wishful thinking, though!
  8. For serious? Too funny! I wonder if emergency workers get these kinds of calls often...? I hope not. XD
  9. My family history has been messed with and unclear for many generations now, but I do know that I was manufactured in some obscure village in the Apennines. I also have some Scottish, Ukrainian, and Dutch blood in me from both my mother's and father's side of the family.
  10. Hello, I'm sucre! I aspire to become a professional singer, and that... that's about it. Lovely site you have here. <:
  11. Well, this is a bit embarrassing, but here's the only half decent picture I have of myself. http://i565.photobucket.com/albums/ss97/rinfang/mehplz.jpg
  12. All right, I know I'm still quite young, but I've been on a total of maybe about... hmm... two dates, both of which I was the one to ask that person out, and one which I was dumped thirty minutes before the dance ended! I would prefer to slowly develop a relationship with a good friend. After all, I'm not very cuddly, and generally neurotic, so if I know I don't connect with that person intellectually right away, it's just a waste of my time. Not wanting to ask random strangers out isn't cowardice; it's just the way you prefer to do things!
  13. The more you know? X'D Okay, you caught me. I'm more like an artificial sweetener, but I suppose if I chose the name "Splenda", that would be trademark infringement... or something... if that exists. C: To be fair, though, I never imagined you to have such a charming story behind your username! At any rate, it's terribly catchy!
  14. I can't remember the last time I flipped the ol' phone on! If you ask me, though, it isn't so much the cell phones that are causing the "problem" as the need to prioritize. Humans are social creatures, yes, but I honestly can't understand the mentality of having to be in contact with one's friends 24/7, especially when they're so consumed in their texting that they forget that there's a person right in front of them, trying to talk to them face-to-face. There's always time for chit-chat, but it's more important to get one's duties done without being glued to the cellular menace... Of course, this doesn't apply to jobs where the phone is necessary! Although, I might just be repeating everything the original poster said! So, seldom ever do I use my phone, I don't have the first idea how to text, they can be useful, etc.
  15. Well, "sucre" is my stage name, plus it sort of fits my sugary disposition, so there ya' go. I'm a simple person.
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