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Where can I find this story?

Oooh, I'm really excited to read anything from Dom! Especially something new...plus I only need a few more posts.

Hi. I'm Brent and I'm new here. I've been posting a bit on one of my favorite author's sites but I thought I'd post here too.

Well, if you talked to him about his bindge drinking and told him how not okay that was to you, told him how him having a girlfriend was not okay with you, and being a bully was not okay, then you aren't being frigid or new-age honest. You're being plain and simple honest. There are certain things people just don't put up with, you can't have someone walk all over you, if you don't like something you should let your date know. Even if it could hurt their feelings, you should make yourself come first if it comes to someone doing something that is deffinetly not okay by you.

You know, I just don't think this is true. I think people vary a lot in their "capacity," and I think people also vary a lot in what emotional content they have in any relationship. And that's before you add in the variations caused by culture and environment. Does a person only care deeply for one sibling at a time? It can be the same kind of thing. Not always. I have a friend who likes to have many boyfriends at a time. He doesn't lie to any of them(as far as I know). He goes on dates with different guys a lot, and he's perfectly happy. Though, I don't think he really has a relationship with most of his guys other than physical.

I have no experience with finding out about my parents cheating, but sadly I don't think I'd be completely suprised if I found out one of them has. The only experience I have with being cheated on, and to what extent I will never know, was with my first ex. A while after we had been dating he tells me that he made out with one of his ex boyfriends when he and I first started dating. Being the asshole he is, he told me it didn't matter that he cheated on me because we had barely started dating and that he chose me not the other guy. Guilting a teenager into that sort of thing is not a very nice thing to do. heh....Of course, my fault for being with someone a bit older than me. But, when I found out I was really upset. And of course he cybered with men and had little shows on his webcam. So, I really had no idea what to think, but I was an idiot and he told me he loved me, so I stayed, but I never really think twice about it. That ended and I'm onto better things. I'm not the brightest person when it comes to relationships. I tend to leap in heart first, so though I am young, I end up falling in love, or thinking I have anyway. I've learned that trust is really important from my experiences with my exes. The only thing you can do is trust in your signifigant other and hope that they trust you too. I can't doubt people for the rest of my life because of one asshole boyfriend. If it happens to me again, its just life and I'll get over it. Just always remember your own values and don't let others sway you.

Thanks for the new chapter! And...TOU 22 rhymes...heh. Anyways, thanks again for wishing everyone a nice weekend. I hope you have a nice one yourself and I hope your friend is okay. My weekend shall be made up of school work, Pokemon(because I feel like it O.o), watching movies/tv, and reading. Not a bad weekend. And my boyfriend just visited so its pretty okay. I'm sure you got TOU 22 just right and that I'll love it. <3 Brent