hey everybody! i'm new here, just registered.
my question regards my new "boyfriend" (i consider him my boyfriend but he doesn't like labels ). we just started dating a little over a week ago. he's really sweet and great and all that good stuff and i can really see this going somewhere. however, i do have a bit of a problem with his ex. now i'm 21 and my bf is 19 which isn't too much of an age difference for me. however, i have recently found out that his ex is over 40 (exactly how much over 40 i'm not sure) which kind of bothers me. maybe i'm just old fashioned...
anyway, last night i was at his house and i wasn't feeling well and came back home to down some nyquil and get some rest. today we were talking online and all of the sudden he's like "well i guess im getting forced to go to the movies tonight" and it turns out that he's going with his ex.
now, i have no reason to think that anything is going on with them anymore, my bf claims that he's still really good friends with his ex just "not on that level" anymore. i've never met this guy, and for all i know he might be a really great guy and i'm just paranoid. but am i the only one that finds this whole situation a little odd? thoughts?