I think it depends on whether your partner is sorry about what they did, and also how you came to find out they were cheating. Some guys think being gay entitles you to sleep around even while in a relationship as long as you don't do it often or didn't go looking for something to happen. If the guy is really sorry and he's the one who fessed up about it then I guess I'd work to get passed it, but i don't really see the point in going out with someone who's only sorry about cheating on you once you catch him at it. Although I know that once your in this situation it's never as easy to handle as it is above. Well that's my take on the subject....ty
Philip