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how did you... darn it, how did you find out? The person below me can't write in full sentences

Well, it indeed isn't really common here to sleep in eachothers bed with only one really large cover. (my parents don't even have that) To make it even more uncommon: we both sleep in nothing more than our underwear. And it almost seemed to be some kind of struggle for both of us to make some kind of step. And if I look back to last weekend, he also didn't sleep very well, I went home last week without a new 'date' (lets give it that name than) and yesterday he suddenly contacted me about going to the movies sunday. Which actually means we will again spend the whole day together. Great fun! It'll be in one hour from now. Man I must be creazy.

I was ready six times to ask or start the topic. I chickened out every single time. It took me so long to even tell about myself to him (over 1 year) that asking him about him is looking like an imposibility. We had fun the whole weekend. And I slept again in his double sized bed. I actually couldn't sleep at all. So close and still nothing. Maybe next time. There will be a next time soon!

do these people actually exist? isn't this just all put up to make a show or anything? I can't believe there are people in this world that are so ... so... I'm lost for words. These people are as bad as the Taliban and other religious fanatics from any religion. These are the people that condamn the world to make it a living hell for many. The most horrible thing to my opinion is that they also raise their kids with these believes. I don't know how long these people are around like this. Must be a while, you can't get like this in a fortnight. It must be the reason we kicked them out of europe centuries ago. We must have hoped they wouldn't survive it. I showed this file to a friend and he said he heard before about this. He actually mentioned that some hells angels were guarding those cemetarys to keep these people away. If that's true and hells angels are the only ones that are keeping them away, well, than I hope many more are comming to some sence and counter these fanatics at every event they show up! I hope someone finds a sollution to silence them and make an end to this.

I have a very good friend for over 7 or 8 years. He's about 3 years older than I am. (he's 32) I know him from I sports club where we both were teaching. For all those years he has never had a girlfriend or anything. And quiet a few people I know that know him too wisper that he might very well be very gay, but he just not has outed jet. And that's also the way I'm thinking about it. (Let's say his DVD collection has only really male movies, not one with a female actress in a leading role) I've outed myself to him a few months ago. He was very open about it, but he didn't respond the way I hoped a bit. -______- I think everyone can fill in this blanc spot. Now he has invited me for the second time for a 'sleepover' at his appartment for this weekend. I do have quiet some feelings for him, but I don't even know officially if he is gay or not. What should I do? tell him how I feel about him? tell him how I think about him? Pretent I'm just there as friends? I just don't know what to do

I got 40% too, but the comment wasn't correct at all "You might act straight mate, but I bet your mother always knew you'd grow up to be a gay guy!" My mom didn't have a clue untill I told her. I did have a few very good friends who actually did found out by themselves