Daffioak

thanks! *blushes* heh, it's really hard to even get myself to say "i love you" to a guy or even write it into a story. i dunno, actions speak louder than words? but my two cents on the over 35 thing? i can't really see someone in their early 20's or late teens dating someone over 35 anyway because of the large age gap. it seems to be asking for trouble only if you're not around that age group IMHO. everyone here has emotional scars and everyone has their own comfort zone. whether or not coming out is within it is another thing entirely.

well, i actually thought about it before choosing yes. but yeah, i would, if the guy was comfortable enough to show me affection and accept the affection i want to give back to him. i dunno, but i really am turned off by guys who wouldn't like a kiss or a hug or even nuzzling, or something. and i really want a guy to hold me and comfort me whenever i'm down and sad. i can handle the non affection in public cuz people can be cruel, mean asses. but i can see getting hurt and dumping the guy if he just buckles under pressure and denies all feelings for me. gosh, this has really got me thinking. before, i just wanted a guy to hold me and say "i love you."