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Pop Goes The 80's Playlist, Part I (1980 - 1985)

So I need a pick-me-up, and what better way than to listen to great 80's pop? Let's start!   Pop Goes The 80's Playlist, Part 1 (1980 - 1985)   1.   2.   3.   I remember seeing an interview with Madonna where she said that had she know this song would have branded her the Material Girl for the rest of her life, she might not have done it. LOL.   4. "Let The Music Play" by Shannon   5. "Cars" by Gary Numan   6.   7.   8.   This is one bat-shit crazy video.

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Grief and the Messed Up Things It Does To People

I got pretty unsettled tonight. My friend Ethan, who was really close to our friend Steve who died, called me up to talk. Pretty soon it obvious that Ethan was completely and totally loaded, and on the phone he admitted to me that he was on cocaine, Adderall, and Vodka. We just had this ten-minute conversation- well if you could call it that- and he just kept saying these snippets of things. Like about what Steve meant to him, how I'm one of the few people that got Steve, and telling me about ho

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I Felt Guilty For Having A Future Because My Friend Doesn't

Today, I spent time putting in job applications...a whole revamp of my CV and resume and cover letters...it's the first time in awhile I put in so many applications and the like. It felt nice.   And then...something strange hit me. I felt inexplicably sad for some reason. Part of it had to be that I had just gotten through helping my mom do home loan modification papers, and that's kind of iffy and unpleasant.   But the other thing...probably the main thing...it made me think about the fact

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Life Is So Unfair

My friend Josh. He's 23, and since he was about 10 or 11 years old, he's been dealing with the complications from his heart transplant. He should have graduated in 2013, but he had to drop out in fall 2012 to deal with hodgekin's disease. Then he couldn't come back for fall 2013. Now it looks like he can't come back at all, and he's planning on coming back down to pack up his apartment, because health-wise it's better for him to try and finish his degree closer to home. While he's not back-on wi

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The Boyband Era Playlist (Mid-1990's to Early '00s)

Alright...the Boyband Era. Let's get started.   1.   2.   It's actually debatable if you can really call Hanson a boyband, because they actually played their own instruments and the like, but I'm including them because they had a big influence in bringing pop music back to the U.S.   3.   I call this, "The Video That Jumpstarted Puberty For Me." Brian Littrell was my first major celebrity crush.   4.   5.   6. "   I crushed on Brian Littrell, but I was toooottt

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From Buzzfeed: Why I Bought A Home in Detroit for $500 by Drew Philp

Hey, guys, I just ran across this article about a young guy who became an urban pioneer in Detroit in Detroit when he was 23...check it out. It's shockingly good, because really, who expects to read something good from Buzzfeed?   Why I Bought A House in Detroit for $500 by Drew Philp   I thought the article was really fascinating- somewhere between the story of, "Look, Downtown Detroit has a Whole Foods now!" and "Ruins of Detroit." It's pretty honest- the guy came in with some very idealis

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My 2013 Playlist

So, the year's over, and we're starting a new year...what was your playlist for 2013? Here was mine...   1.   2.   3.   4.   5.   6.   7.   8.   9.   10.   11.   12.   13.   14.   15.   16.   17.   18.   19.   20.   21.   It seems like for 2013, there were two trends- electronic-based, and folksy inspired stuff. Kinda diametrically opposed, but it makes sense that there'd be two trends that were

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New Year's 2014

Happy New Year's everybody. I've spent the day being massively hungover. For the most part, these days whenever I go out, I have at most 2 beers, because I'm my own designated driver. But last night, I went to a house party and they allowed us to crash there, so I went way harder than I normally do- two Yuenglings, 1 Negron Modelo, 2 Harvest ales, a double shot of Whiskey, and champagne. At 21 in college, I could have consumed all that plus smoke a joint and felt fine the next day.   But 8 d

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Sounds of a 90's Childhood Playlist, Part 4

I thought I was going to do this in three parts, but it looks like I'll probably have to do five parts. LOL.   Part 4   1. "Killing Me Softly" by the Fugees   2.   3.   4.   5. "   6.   7. "You Only Get What You Give" by The New Radicals   8.   9.   10. "   11.   12.   13.   14.   15.   16.   17.   18.   19. "Brimful of Asha" by Cornshop (Norman Cooke Remix)   20.   21.   22.   23.   24.  

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Sounds of A 90's Childhood, Part 3

1.   2. "Sitting Up In My Room" by Brandy   3.   4. "Scream" by Michael Jackson and Janet Jackson   5.   6.   7.   8. "The Macarena" by Los Del Rios   9.   10.   11.   12.   13.   14.   15.   16.   17.   18.   19.   20.   21.   22. "I Don't Want to Wait" by Paula Cole   23.   24   25.   26.   27.   28.   Stephen Jenkens circa 1997. Goddman he was hot.   29.   30.

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"So...did they rule out suicide?" (And Christmas Caroling)

Friday I went to this alumni lunch deal at my old high school, where I get a free Bobbie hoagie and sit around and watch current students do a Holiday showcase.   I talked to some people about my friend Steve's death...when I mentioned that he died a drug overdose, almost all of them asked me, "So did they rule out suicide?"   I mean, I get the question, and on an intellectual level I get it, but a part of me just felt pissed off. Pissed off that my friend Steve is going to be dismiss

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Sounds of a 90's Childhood Playlist, Part 2

Sounds of A 90's Childhood Playlist, Part 2   1."   2. "   3.   4. "   5.   6.   7.   8. "   9.   10.   11.   12.   13. "   14.   15.   16.   17.   18.   19.   20. "   21.   22.   23.   24. "All I Wanna Do" by Sheryl Crow   25.   26.   27.   28. "We Are Young" by Supergrass   29.   30. "Kiss From A Rose" by Seal   I honestly think 1994 to 1996 were the best year

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The Sounds of A 90's Childhood Playlist, Part 1

Sounds of A 90's Childhood Playlist, Part 1   1.   2.   3. Love Will Never Do - Janet Jackson   4.   5.   6.   7.   8.   9.   10.   11.   12. 2 Legit 2 Quit - MC Hammer   13.   14.   15.   16.   17.   18.   19.   20.   21.   22. To Be With You - Mr. Big   23.   24.   25.   26.   27.   28. Everything I Do (I Do It For You) - Bryan Adams   29.   30. Losing My Religion -

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Two Weeks Later and My Friend's Official Obituary

It's been two weeks since my friend Stephen died. I checked out his FB page, and found a link to his obituary.   It's so strange. I've actually had this habit since I was 11 or 12 years old of reading obituaries. This guy in high school said I was morbid for doing so, but I've always liked reading about the interesting and long lives of people who lived through things like World War II or the Great Depression. I also like to visit cemeteries, check out tombstones, read the dates, and imagine

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My Friend Stephen

In college, I had a friend named Stephen R. I actually had a lot of friends named Stephen, but he was honestly my favorite one. We met one afternoon in Kent Dining Hall at the University of Delaware at the beginning of the 2007-2008 school year. I was eating lunch, and this tall, lanky blond kid who was pale as fuck asked if he could eat lunch with me. We ate lunch, then we hung out in his room. Stephen had this small single at the top of Sussex/Squire Hall. We got high, then spent the day walki

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My Friend Is In A Coma, Part II

The memorials have already started on Steve's Facebook page. My friend Ian told me that Steve was still on life support the last time he talked to his dad, but they were basically planning on taking him off it to let him pass in his own bed instead of a hospital. It's entirely possible that he passed after Ian talked to his dad, hence the memorials.   I can't do the Facebook memorial just yet. Not until Ian confirms it to me on the phone.   There are just so many memories that I'm runn

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My Friend Is In A Coma

My friend of 6 years, Stoner Steve as I've referred to him over the years, is in a coma after overdosing on heroin. He's had brain hemorrhaging and things aren't looking good for him. Our friend Ian let me know in a post over Facebook.   I'm in total shock. Complete and totally. I had just talked to him on Facebook chat November 20th. According to Ian, Steve's dad found him on the floor on Saturday morning. They took him to the hospital, put him in a medically induced coma, and things were l

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Catching Fire- My Thoughts (Spoilers)

I'll start out with my disappointments.   I really hated that they took out Johanna's "I don't care if you are knocked out, I'll rip your throat out" line, as well as the Second Quarter Quell. I was expecting that they would take them out, but I was hoping I was wrong. I think they should have kept in the foreshadowing about District 13 somewhere- I get why they cut out Bonnie and Twill, but they should have found another way to foreshadow them. I think they should've put in a little more abou

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"I've Got the Blues" Tale of the Day

So, here's what happened to me. I worked a retail job for the Holidays last year. This year, I was told by the same retail job at the Holiday job fair that I would get to come back and do the seasonal job again. I came in a week later and asked to leave a message with the person who told me I was hired, but then they never got back to me.   Lo and behold, I came in today to find out what was going on and they told me that (shocker) I wasn't hired. They told me some bullshit excuse about

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The Grunge Era Playlist, Part II

The Grunge Era Playlist, Part II   1.   2.   3. She Don't Use Jelly by the Flaming Lips   4. Under the Bridge by The Red Hot Chilli Peppers   5. Spin the Bottle by Juliana Hatfield   6. Lump by The Presidents of the United States of America   7.   8.   9.   10.   11.   12.   13.     15.   16.   17.   18.   19.   20.   21. The Distance by Cake   22.   23.   24. Ledbetter by Pearl Jam   25.  

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The Grunge Era Playlist

So, grunge is something I remember and love from my childhood. Here are some great Grunge Era tunes. (I deem the Grunge Era as being about 1991 to 1996, with the Grunge Era officially over when Hanson and Spice Girls ruled the charts in 1997.)   1.   2.   3.   4.   5.   6.   7.   8. (I have gotten jokes about this since I was 5.)  9.   10.   11.   12.   13. Soul to Squeeze- Red Hot Chili Peppers   14.   15.   16.   17.

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5 Years Gone- Dan Kincaid

This week marks the 5th anniversary of the passing of a very lovely online friend and member of the community, author Dan Kincaid/Sam. (He died, I believe, on either October 25th of 2008, or October 26th.) I only had the privilege of corresponding with him for a few months before he died, but I'm really glad we did. Back in those days, Adam and I were...well, let's just say that we had somewhat of a personality clash going on, and Sam was really good at being a mediator.   He was a very swe

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My Disco Playlist

So, I've been re-watching Saturday Night Fever on Netflix (seriously, the R-rated version is soooo much better than the one that ran on TV), and I've been in the mood for some good disco.   Here's my playlist:   1.   2.   3. You Should Be Dancing - The BeeGees   4.   5.   6. Night Fever- The BeeGees   7.   8. I Feel Love- Donna Summer   9.   10.   11. (Disco didn't die in Europe 'til like '84, apparently.)  12.   13.   14.   15.

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Modern Pop/World History Nerd-Out, Part 2

The 1970's   1979: "Video Killed The Radio Star" by the Buggles. The Iranian Hostage Crisis begins. Three Mile Island. A "Disco Sucks" rally is held where thousands of disco records are burned.   1978: "Heart of Glass" by Blondie. "Halloween" is a hit movie. "Dallas" premieres.   1977: "Go Your Own Way" by Fleetwood Mac. Elvis dies. Jimmy Carter takes over the presidency. Studio 54 opens in New York City.   1976: "Baby, I Love Your Way" by Peter Frampton. The American Bicentennial. Nadia

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Modern Pop/World History Nerd-Out, Part 1

So, to kinda "test" my off-the-top-of-my-head knowledge about modern history and pop culture, I thought it'd be fun to work back and see what events, songs, general popular culture I can remember off-hand from every year, and see how far I can go back without any kind of googling. (I won't try to add EVERYTHING, just a few things.) The year that stumps me and I can't recall anything about it, is the end of this nerd-out.   The 2010's   2013: The Navy Yard shooting. "Blurred Lines" by Robin T

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