Hey howdy hey~

Lots of random crap to talk about here...

1. So I had to work a crappy ass shift at work today, but the upside to that was that Rich came and took me out to lunch on my break. We end up at Taco Bell/Pizza Hut to appease the children arguing in the back seat... shrugs indifferently So, we are at Taco Bell and we have just gotten our food and are starting to eat when the couple behind us at the next table start fighting This was not just some quiet discussion, but basically the guy is pissed at the girl because she got something, I think sauce, on him, his arm, and his shirt and she won't apologize to him. She is yelling at this poor guy saying stuff like 'I swear if you say anything else to me I will get up and kick your ass!' and 'You think I'm kidding? Just try it then' By this point I'm pissed! I mean this is MY lunch break and my family has come to spend it with me since I have to be stuck at work all day, and now this b***h is gonna get all psycho and ruin it! So I say to Rich that we are moving to another table... like NOW! This girl was being so ridiculous and I was tired of hearing it, but the reason we moved was that my kids were there and I didn't want them hearing all the bullshit she was saying. Rich is asking me why this guy is sticking around for her crap and even went as far as to say 'It... meaning sex can't be that good!' So I make some big show out of it... I stand up and grab my food and walk to another table and then go back and get my sons' and tell him to come with me and Rich and my daughter follow along too. By this time the guy is packing up food in a bag to leave and I point it out to Rich. He says "I didn't know that testicles were on the menu" He thought the guy was taking his food and was going to leave that crazy chick there. As if! Please, this poor guy ends up practically begging this girl to leave with him, he is holding the door open for her and she just sucks!... I will never understand girls like that!

2. I put up chapter 4 of my story yesterday at http://www.geocities.com/matpazcas/ in the stories section. I am... officially honored that Matt has asked me to post it there. I want to tell you all, that not only is he an amazing author, but he is an intelligent, caring, man... not to mention f**kin HOT! But besides ALL of those things he is my friend too, and for that I am one lucky girl....

3. Yesterday at work I ended up in the MOST stupid conversation with a guy I work with. He is a nice guy usually, I haven't ever seen him be anything else really. So it started because my son came home from preschool the other day telling me that he is a boyfriend. Well, I thought that was too cute, and too funny since he doesn't even know what a boyfriend is and is most likely just repeating something someone else said. So, I'm telling this guy, 'H' about what my son said and how I asked my son since he is a boyfriend if he has a girlfriend? Of course in true little boy fashion he said NO! to that, hehehehe. So H ends up asking me if I would care if my son ended up gay, his words, not mine. So I quickly say NO! I would love him just the same, and I would too! Somehow the conversation ends up on gay men wanting kids. Well, H is married and has one little girl so I'm sure he knows what he's talking about :wacko: when he says that he's pretty sure that gay men wouldn't want to have kids. So I tell him that I know a few who would. H asks if they will adopt or what and I say yeah or find a surrogate... Then H tells me that if these guys want kids so bad why did they choose to be gay So I ask H if he really thinks that people choose to be gay and he says yeah we all choose. I'm a bit ticked by this point but I press on in the name of educating ignorant idiots and cause there are lots of people I love who are affected by this kind of crap, not to mention that it's just the right thing to do. So I ask H if he thinks that my friend would be just as happy if he 'chose' to be with a woman and he says I don't know... well no shit! That was obvious a LONG time ago, but then goes on to tell me how being gay is pretty widely accepted now, like it's some passing trend or fad... Ugh!

4. I have this cough... not just a cough, but more of a wheezing, hacking, gurgling, non productive, annoying cough that just won't go away. How did I get it you ask? Well... I have this adorable little guy who says I'm his whole world who loves me so much that he has to kiss me and lay on my pillow and drink out of my glass and so there you have it! Meanwhile, I don't feel at all sick, but the cough is just lingering and I don't like it one bit!

Serious hugs for my sweetie... and thanks to all of you who have taken the time to mention how much you are loving my story and for all those who are helping me, thanks.

Love Ya! Viv