Thank you so much for sharing your stories with all of us it makes my Mondays. I'm going to have to give Tobyn a pass here. The guy is stuck in a greif loop. There is the man he wants to be the man he thought he had to be his whole life but that man just keeps dying. I don't think he doesn't see Kellar for what he is to him he just never gets to the acceptance step of the five stages of grief. We've seen the first four stages denial, anger, bargaining, and depression but each time the him he thinks he needs to be dies he just seems to reset and starts all over. Kellar or someone is going to have help him with the last step. In a way Kellar isn't helping in an unknowing way he's the one hitting the reset button. Every time Kellar tells Tobyn he isn't leaving Tobyn gets to keep Kellar and puts the him he hopes to be back on life support even though that him is brain dead.