Wow I never really thought of that... I mean I've only known two gay people in my life... But I don't rmbr ever telling people right of that their gay especially when I'm introducing them to my other friends. I mean if my friends are like his hot, I'd be like 'his gay.' I suppose for me its just a way of saying you don't have a chance.
But looking from an optimistic point of view, maybe they see your sexuality as a big part of who you are, and by telling other people about it, they're saying that they're okay with it too. It's a bit like ... say is you had dark colored skin, people can see that right away, its a big part of who you are. But with your sexual orientation they can't, so what people do is they say it... If that makes sense. Or sometimes when your introducing a friend to a friend, you try to find the commonalities in them to see if they'll get along better, maybe thats just it...
Although I don't think its all bad, I mean it'll save future uncomfortable silences, and unpleasant ways of finding out... or wondering if that persons gay or straight.
Ahh... but I'm no expert... I'm just one of those open minded people that read gay stories
