Okay, now I'm no bible expert (Thank God!) But the majority of messages like 'all fags are going to hell' and so on are taken from the OLD testement. People tend to read between the lines and change the meanings of sentences to make the bible work for them anyway so don't bother looking for a direct quote. (There might be one, I don't know actually)
But even if there is a direct quote saying that just because we we're homosexual we're destined for the eternal falme, keep in mind that most likely it was taken from the old testement (scrolls written by hermits on magic mushrooms over 2000 years ago) It makes me laugh everytime someone quotes from it because it holds no worth at all in my mind.
I've lost my faith, but when I do need inspiration I turn to the new testement and read about Jesus, because he was cool with everything and taught love, not hatred. I'm sure Jesus doesn't care about where you put your penis so my advice is not to be worried and let the bigots cling tightly to their 2000+ year old quotes.