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A girl I was seeing was also seeing the singer in my band. She then tried to destroy our band telling lies to the each of us. So I had sex with her mom! She still can't look me in the eye to this very day!ROFLMBO!

More likely, she doesn't -- she thinks she's being friendly and sexy, the same way men who whistle and say embarrassing things to women think they are being friendly and sexy. I have to disagree. Those men would sleep with the woman they whistle and say embarassing things to. There is a difference between straight men and women. Women know the next time they are going to have sex, men don't.

Take the complement. I have been hit on by men and though, it is not what I am used to, I don't think it is violating. I think that half of the time it is because they know I am straight and want to make me squirm. I would think that that girl probably did have "cooties", or something worse (STD's). What a slut! I wonder how many times a shift she does that.

Dude, that totally sucks! I hate it when people wont give an explanation for leaving. I am not sure which is worse. Not saying anything and leaving, or lying about why you are leaving. I find both to be disrespectful and chicken-shitted. You need your friends right now. Ending relationships suck. Hopefully in time you can see this as an opportunity for something even better. That's the best spin I can put on it right now.

I agree, like the saying goes: "You can't bullshit a bullshitter". Before getting married I had seen enough BS to go around and I know it when I smell it. I won't rationalize his selfish disregard for your feelings. Who goes to a movie with an ex when they are starting a new relationship? Anyone who thinks that that is okay isn't ready for a commited relationship. If a person really cared about your feelings, he wouldn't pull such a stunt as he knows that you could perceive it as a bad situation. Live and learn. P.S. A good rule of thumb to live by: If you have to ask the question, you already know the answer.

I always liked, "A mistake on your part does not constitute an emergency on my part". I also like, "I can only be nice to one person a day and today isn't your day."

A really drunk guy is walking home from the bar and sees a pumpkin patch on the side of the road. He thinks how nice and squishy they must be on the inside, and decides to have a little fun with a pumpkin. He finds a big one, cuts a hole in it, and starts going at it. It must have been getting pretty good because he didn't even notice that a cop car had pulled up, and that an officer was walking right towards him. The cop says "Hey buddy.... Do you know you're screwing a pumpkin?" to which the guy respond,s "A pumpkin?!? It's midnight already???"

Yes, "being forced" is a way of not taking responsibility for his own actions. My BS detector almost blew up when I read that. Not all 19 year olds are ready to "settle down". Perhaps he senses your willingness to "settle down" and doesn't feel the same way. I liken the going to a movie to the footrub conversation in Pulp Fiction. Going to a movie is/can be an intimate setting. I have never gone to a movie with a woman (I am straight, but relationships are relationships regardless of gender) I didn't want to sleep with. I have also never rubbed a woman's feet without the same intentions. I don't need to psychoanalize your bf to call BS. I do know that a 20-30 year discrecpancy in age also raises red flags. I wouldn't hang out with someone that much younger than me without having a common interest with them. Sex, drugs/alcohol, and hobbies come to mind. The difference in maturity could still be hard to overcome. Although with sex and drugs it is easy to overlook the maturity because addiction can help overlook these things.

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Being very intelligent can make for a lonely time if you require that out of a bf/gf. You don't have to find a soulmate right now. You don't have to be together forever. Since you are a fan of statistics, you may want to look up the odds of being with your first bf/gf forever. Perhaps that will help put things in perspective for ya.

That's it!!! I am leaving until the next time I log on! I hope that you all will miss me for a couple of hours.

You are leaving out the best british bands. What gives?

She's around. She just hasn't checked out much on this site lately. You'd have to ask her.

If Mag would only come back on I am sure she would have this one!

LMBO!!! I think you are right. They should give medals, erect statues/memorials, and have a Hall of Fame also for BJ's!