It's something I always tried to do with my Jacob. Embody my lessons to him.
It's funny, there was only one time I ever lost my cool with Jake. It was in China, there was a typhoon, and he'd just waded back home through backed up sewers.... like yikes... so he comes in and heads for the bathroom without taking his shoes off. And it was stupid, I just lost it on him... It took a bit for me to realize I wasn't yelling because I was angry, I was yelling because I was worried about him out in the storm. Lots of hot chocolate, apologies, and hugs later... but he never forgot to take his shoes off again
We laugh about it now, but yeah only time. Now was I a strict dad, hell yes... but yelling and cussing, no.