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It's almost indistinguishable sometimes. I forget how much you sound like him, cause we hardly ever argue, and Drew and I do nothing but argue.

Hey Gary, how's my favorite sexy cowboy doing?

I love how Clo just redefines all foods based on her personal preferences... She really is @Drew Espinosa's sister.

But I mean, it wasn't even, in any way, directed at you. You're winning that gold medal in the Mental Gymnastic Olympics, to conflate what I said to Terry as bullying toward you... freaking goofball.

I mean it's one of the best BL series of the year, might even be number 1 for me by the end. It's definitely not like other series in the genre I've watched, even the more genre breaking stuff, like the crime thrillers/BLs. It really is its own unique thing, hard to quantify exactly what genre it's in. I guess general drama/romance(ish). You probably would enjoy it, but your special someone probably wouldn't let you watch all the pretty hotties. Two of which have lots of NC scenes.

Hope everyone is having a great Saturday! Or Sunday @Bucket1 my bro in the future, and @raven1 my Phi. @Drew Espinosa I have watched the ants on Episode 6 of Only Friends, and (as we kinda already knew) shit really really hits the fan this time. Stuff we knew was coming, but I honestly had no inkling it was going to go down like it did. It was a rough one.

I haven’t checked every chapters comments, but I saw you bringing in good insights as always.

So I’ve finally caught up to this story. I have so many thoughts and feelings and conflicting emotions, it’s hard to put everything into words. By all accounts we’ve heard in the story so far, to me Dayna sounds extremely selfish in pretty much every aspect of their marriage. I don’t know if she was meant to come across that way, but that’s how it seems. Especially with the isolation she kept Kyan in. It honestly sounds like they got married too soon, because of the unplanned pregnancy. I don’t want to say they were too young, because not every young person needs to be in multiple relationships before they’re “ready” for marriage. But in this case, they’d only known each other for a very short time, and still didn’t actually know each other that well. This would explain Dayna’s insecurities, and honestly Kyan’s obliviousness to his own proclivities. That all being said, this situation is extremely sticky, and was always going to be so. It’s really easy to say, Kyan needs to get over it, but this will never be that simple. He’s already insecure about his placement within this family, due to his upbringing, and due to the death of Dayna, his children notwithstanding. She was his link to them and now she’s gone, and he feels like he’s become their burden. On top of that, there’s information they’ve all been privy to his entire marriage to Dayna that directly concerns him, yet he was never let in on the “secret.” That’s going to feel like a betrayal no matter what. On top of that the feelings of guilt and responsibility he’s going to feel toward Dayna. That’s part of his grief, and that might never go away. Grief is always there, it might lessen intensity over time, but little events can bring it right back to the forefront. I’d dare say this is such an event: Personally, I think Perry waited way too long to have this conversation. He was well aware of Kyan’s insecurities, and wanting things to move forward with Kyan was always going to hit a brick wall because the elephant in the room was never addressed. On top of that, letting Kyan carry this worry about what everyone would think around, when they already know is cruel. And that about wraps it up for right now.

Love you too Drewbear.

I'm pretty sure if I was actually bullying Gary, he could take care of me. Also, how would I know I was a nerd reference unless I actually was aware of the Wheel of Time goofball?

Double nerd reference!!!

Nerd reference!!!

Hey Nong, hope you’re feeling better!

Sometimes you're so ridiculous I can't even argue with you. I'm concerned it's a form of me being worn down.

Of course you are… Green flags always decimate endangered species…

No, read our previous posts to each other… The hashtag thing isn’t really that complicated, but doesn’t always work, and don’t get me started on the assigned “position” Iabels, and how they misconstrue m/m relationships again.

Nong, if you were #TopTier, would you be a red flag?

@Mancunian, it seems like there’s been less of this the last several months. It was posts like this that spawned the term “Ministry of Drewth.”

Since we’re in a hypothetical “BL” scenario, especially in Thailand where if actor pairings have great chemistry, and are really popular, many times they’ll appear in multiple series together… so BL fangirls being BL fangirls assign “top” and “bottom” roles to the actors based in their characters, and in tweets and such they always smash the names together with the “top” first and “bottom” second.

You wish bitch. They’d take one look at our height difference, and that’s all it would take for #SpikeyDrew,, and #SpikeyIsTopTier…

Well if we were we’d have the fangirls most important question already figured out… 👀

You take it easy babe, get some rest. Don't make me drive 6 hours to come find you and wipe you down with a wet cloth.

Yes, my mother took a trip there in 2014, and the wait seemed like it wasn’t worth it. I’d probably agree, we climbed the inside of the Statue of Liberty when I was 11…Once you’ve climbed one internationally famous monument/structure the thrill is gone.