While this is an admirable trait, and one that I wholeheartedly agree with, it made me curious why he didn’t feel a connection to the greater gay community.
This is my Husband you were stalking ...LOL And yes, i am a submissive gay man. We don't feel part of the greater gay community often because they often view us as freaks and weirdos for living our lives as we do. We have gay friends who are also D/s couples and several who aren't. However, i suppose as we don't live life going to gay clubs or gyms etc., so maybe are viewed as not part the total cultural community.