Is it a major publisher, one who is likely to bring in big bucks???
If yes, it is worth rewriting, perhaps.
If no, it is better to find a publisher who is OK with gay literature, and do a minimum sanitazion when necessary.
But remember, some of those who are likely to read it, have probably already seen it at Nifty, so the word will spread, whether you want to or not.
So, either you need do a total rewrite, changing names, location, big chunks of story line etc. etc., or, better IMHO, be upfront about it.
There are Nifty stories that have been published as books. Whether the author made much money from it is another matter.
The title I liked best is 'The Children No One Wanted', but that title might put some potential buyers off.
What about 'A Haven For Unwanted Children'? More upbeat, easier to sell, I think.
BTW, I hope you'll finish the story.
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