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I really don't care blood children or adopted children . Just think it would be much happier and funnier if there were a child in the familly :2hands: :ranger: . Otherwise, raising a child together would tighten the relation beetween parents

As I promised, here are some add where you can get infos of asian culture and tradition. Hope you enjoy them. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality_in_China http://www.essortment.com/in/Culture.Asian/index.htm http://archaeology.about.com/od/asia/Asian...Archaeology.htm http://www.vietnam-culture.com/ http://www.vietspring.org/ http://users.openface.ca/~dstephen/chphil.htm http://library.thinkquest.org/20443/culture.html http://www.wku.edu/~yuanh/China/culture.html http://www.nihongo.org/english/culture/ http://www.explorejapan.com/jculture.htm

in ancient time, Chinese rich men might stay with young boys (usually teenage boys) for fun but they couldn't marry them. Otherwise, in Chinese (and other asian countries) men have the duty of having MALE children. Girls grow up,leave home, take care of her husband's family, bear children who have the first name of her husband's family. That's why girls are not respected and would not inherit family property. Their father gives them a little property when they married as marriage portion. However, boys stay home, take care of his family, his parents and inherit all the family property. They have to marry and have children, esp male children to make their family grow larger. Having male children to inherit family is one of the obligations as a male child to his parents and the man who has many male children was well- respected. It was undutiful to their parents and family of not marrying and having male child. Besides, men could marry many women but each woman could have only one husband and she had to be total faithful to her husband. If they couldn't have children or male children, it was the fault of the woman It's discrimination and explains the reason of the population explosion (chinese keep bearing children until they have male child) Now, it's not as strict as ancient time but the influence of feudal ethical behaviour still exists. That's why it's very difficult for gay and lesbian in asia to come out and go their out way. The pressure from the family is terrible. it's a point of asian trandition in ancient time. Once upon the time, if a man and a woman stayed alone in a place before marriage, it was considered as a dubious affair. Even when a boy wanted to give a girl something, he couldn't give it directly to the girl (he must put it somewhere and the girl would come and take it). That's why female parents could only adopt girls. I gonna looking for the informations of the asian tradition if you are interested in. Really, it's very interesting and very diffirent from western tradition. I'm an asian so I'm sure about that

thank everyone for this warm welcome all of you here are my teachers @AFFriendlyFace: I mean 'stories'. I enjoy writting and now I try to translate my stories into english.

Hi every1 It's nice 2 joint every1. I'm not really good at english (I'm not english speaker) but I really love these stories here. Now I'm trying to write in english and hope that everybody will help me. Thank a lot

I really love manga I also like anime but not as much as manga 'cos drawing in manga is much better. I also do cosplay :2hands: I've read a lot of yaoi but I love 'Boys next door' of Kaori Yuki most. It's really a pure, sad love story. Besides, 'Okane ga nai' and 'colour' are also cute, too about anime, why don't you try 'Fuyu no semi' or 'Princess princess'. They are so cute, esp 'Princess princess'