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Not really "tomorrow"


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Gotta remember to stop making promises in my blog, like "I'll post tomorrow" - heh.

 

ANYWAYS...

 

So - the doctor visit LAST WEEK went relatively well. Dr Arai was still happy with my progress, only thing was, I also got a dose of reality at the same time. I had been hoping that I might be able to go back to work in say, early September. So I brought it up as far as - "I know the schedule says I can go back to work after 5-6 months, but what about earlier". I knew I was in trouble as I saw her bracing toward the beginning of the sentence, and then totally do a double-take at the end and she said "Earlier?" Uh-oh...

 

So - we talked it through a bit and she did say that I POSSIBLY could go back earlier, but to consider easing into it, like part-time to begin with ("Better than starting full-time and then having to drop back and feel like you failed"). We talked about dates and she thought Oct for full time would work, but to also play it by ear.

 

I also had thought that this was my last Stanford visit - but she still wants to see me, just every three months (well - better than having to drive down there every two weeks). I still go in for follow-ups every two weeks, but now I get to do those with Dr Spears, my local doctor.

 

Otherwise, things are going pretty well. My stamina level is that I'm up about three hours at a stretch before hitting a wall. I'm doing a ton of reading since that's the only thing that is keeping me from being totally bored out of my mind. I've always loved reading on a handheld (right now, my AT&T Tilt, a windows mobile phone - previously on an internet capable PDA). So I'm scouring various story sites, nifty, best of nifty, etc... One thing I HATE - getting really into a good, well-writen series - only to read the last chapter to find it is UNFINISHED. One reason I love sites that accurately post "Completed" vs "In Progress". Though, if the author is still going, I have purposely read through their in progress stuff as well - just when they do post a new chapter, I have to frequently re-read the previous chapter to remember what is going on and who the characters are.

 

Ironic thing, is in addition to the web-based stories I'm burning through, I have a number of physical books that I WANT to read, I just... keep putting them off. One in particular, is the completion of the Sword of Truth books - I still have NOT read "Chainfire" - though Dan and I own it, Phantom and Confessor (the last three novels in the series). Not sure why - I've tried about 4 times, but I just can't get into Chainfire.

 

That's about it for now - NOT gonna promise another update immediately, but when the mood strikes me, ya, I'll definately update - heh. Take care, and thanks again to everyone for their well-wishes... It is much appreciated.

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Robert, it's good to hear you are progressing well. I understand the desire to get back to work. It feels like you really have accomplished something when you return. It's also reassuring that the boss hasn't figured out they can do without you. :P

 

I returned to work three weeks after my prostate cancer surgery. The doctor had suggested half days initially, but I worked full days from day one and felt great the whole time. I realize your treatments affect your stamina considerably more than my experience did.

 

Take care of yourself. Your day will be here soon enough.

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Its good to hear that you are getting better. I agree with your Doctor and Mike (above me) that you should take the half days. Hope to hear form you soon.

 

-Jules

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Robert--

 

Your stamina is up to three hours at a stretch--that's great. But before you're ready to go back to work, you'll need more stamina than merely the hours you plan to work, Toss in some time for commuting, some time for lunch, some time for breaks--and things like lunch and food breaks will be very important to observe if you to hope to continue to recover. Now add some time for personal maintenance and the things that make life worth living (like snuggle time with Dan, and that's as detailed as I plan to get...)--and you'll see that you're not quite ready to resume work yet. The way I figure it is you're not ready to put in an eight-hour day at work until after you've got the strength to put in a hard eight-hour day at Disneyland :).

 

Instead of worrying about getting back to work, my advice is a Zen-like enjoy the situation where you are. Life has dealt you some "time-out" time, and you should take advantage of it. Best wishes for continued recovery.

 

--Rigel

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Thank you Mike, Julian and Rigel... appreciate the thoughts. And while a big part of me knows that I'm not ready yet and still have more recovery to do - I AM BORED!!! lol - just missing the office. But you're right - I need to be able to handle a full work day before risking one. At least the commute part is easy as my work is about 10-15 minutes away on decent surface streets.

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Thanks for the update. I'm glad the check-up went well.

 

I know you're antsy to get back to work, and I'm sure your co-workers would love to have you back, but we've all got the same goal in mind - for you to get ALL better. Please don't rush to try to get back only to compromise your recovery.

 

Hoping to see you in a few weeks. Hugs to you and Dan, as always.

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