Beautiful blog entry and so full of truth.
After reading your blog, sitting here teary eyed, I tried to remember if I told my mom in words how much I cared, appreciated and loved her. Since I can't recall, I have to assume I didn't. I did everything I could to help my mom through her battle with lung cancer and I'm glad I was able to keep her at home and comfortable as her life ended. I have to believe that my actions and support conveyed just how much she meant to me. I do know that since her death, my family and friends are more consistent about ending coversations or visits with I love yous, hugs and kisses.
I hope many peope take your message to heart and tell their loved ones how they matter in their lives. I also hope that your mom is doing fine now or at least on the road to recovery and you'll have many years to come to tell her how you feel...often.