Seriously! Thank You everyone for the advice! It really did help and I sort of got a level head over the weekend to sort of calm down after the throes of the stress of it all. I've already put into action a lot of your ideas and I'm seeing mixed results, but I'm at least optimistic about figuring it out. It's not going to change over night and this job will probably never be the right one for me, but at least I can look at growth opportunity rather than just faltering.
I can not express ENOUGH how appreciative of everyone for jumping in and helping out. Like... I wish I could do something in return? I hope, at the very least that you recognize you helped someone that was definitely sinking.