Ideal wedding? I wasn't planning on anything formal, but I think the best way to go about it would be to be completely private. If he wants a few friends to witness it, then I would be fine with that, but I wouldn't want anything large. We would be dressed casual and would do it in a place that makes us happy (beach, woods, home, sea, airplane, whatever) and all we would do is exchange simple vows and rings. There's no point in having some huge extravaganza because we would have the rest of our lives to make the union special.
No priest spitting out God this and Lord that nonsense. I've heard it enough times that I know that He wishes us well, I don't need a priest to tell us that. However if he wants one then I'll get him one. It's just as much his day as it is mine, so I would certainly be willing to compromise.
As far as a honeymoon goes... we'd go only where he wants to go. I have no where in mind to go, so I would that up to him... which could be a camping trip, Japan, or a European vacation...