I don't think you got what I was saying... because in fact that's exactly what I'm saying. I'm not proposing any change to how the mods deal with chat mishaps... in fact I applaud what they did, and I'm fine with the system in place because of their ability.
That's a lot of exceptions. I'm assuming most of your experiences didn't involve the same person at different ages making the same decision, did they?
Let's see. While there are many definitions of wisdom, we usually link wisdom and learning. You will agree with me that even though not ALL individuals learn as they grow older, most do. You can be a relatively mature and wise 17 year old, but most likely you will be more wise when you are 30, and even more so when you are 35 (unless you've been living under a rock, in which case you will have learned very little). If given ample time to think a response to a crisis, a wise and mature 17 year old will most likely come up with something appropriate. If given 3 seconds to respond, a 30 year old who has most likely experienced that crisis (possibly repeatedly) will come up with a more appropriate response than a 17, 19, or 21 year old could in those same 3 seconds. So all in all, I think it's safe to say that maturity is enforced by experience, and experience is gained with time, as time is a continuum, so . I don't mean to belittle anyone: I've made plenty of rash and stupid decisions, some of which many of you are aware of... and I've always been told that I am very mature for my age. AND I never said that there were no exceptions to the rule, or that the youth of GA was incapable of giving well-thought-out responses... I'm just saying that if we gave new members time to acclimate to the rules and to learn how to interact with others on the INTERNET (specifically the forums) before letting them into chat (where things are usually immediate), things would be a lot less chaotic. BUT I also said that it would probably be too much work for the mods and that it would create a lot of bad feelings between new members and GA administration. I still applaud whoever made the decision to close chat for these past few days.