No yes and no, no easy answers. Fear masked as reservation and caution can be blindingly debilitating. Yet to weigh and decied either for or against is a mark of intelligence and prudence. It's the ebb and flow between the two that makes the difference. Sometimes you have to just run toward the bank and leap into the air. For half a moment you're flying and free, then to be suddenly swallowed whole by rushing, frothing waters as the creek grabs you and takes you where it wants until you remember to struggle to the surface to do it all again. That first jump is terrifying, as it should be. Reservation makes us wait, consider the possible harm. Fear helps us decide it would be wiser to stay on the stable ground beneath our feet. The choice is ours to make; is the possible sprained ankle, or broken heart worth the ride?
The world is as big as you choose to see it.