I can relate to the lifetime of abuse ... the thing is in my family these little abuses or big ones never go away in them
it becomes part of their character ... much like being scared, nervous, and shy is part of our character.
Yeah, I think I have PTSD too ... my mama at times can be a bit of a bully or give hard love.
Do you have physical close friends near by?
It's hard over here .... just being jobless compounds the issue.
Its human that we label, we, discriminate, we, do thing that is inhuman
ex: China - we all look alike ... but to the discerning eye, we're different
because if we are not of the same village ... there exists labels and discrimination
even within the same village because there exist the small town complex
Yes ... they discriminate people of the north or south or east or west
the food etc
This is much like anywhere else in the world ... like america ... where everyone is of a different race and from a different location.
In America we take note that there is discrimination for the long-term unemployed
in Asia ... its actually spelled out in the job ads ... must be a certain age range, health, weight
retirement age is 55.
The issue is that the company doesn't wish to accept the higher cost of healthcare.
You begin to wonder how do retire people survive in Asian countries ... they depend on their children to support them ...
( there is family unity we don't cultivate here but surely soon what we have here will happen in their country as they
get exposed to a better lifestyle and lose parts of their own culture in trade to become a modern one )
Here, the children don't support their family or parents much ... they just fly the coup and go out to discover their own life.