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Dancing Bare - 36. Epilogue

Living apart was not an option!

But Europe wasn’t united. I wasn’t allowed to live permanently in Holland. Jürgen couldn’t get permission to live in France. Heterosexuals could get married to solve that problem. We had to live together! But where? The only options were countries that accepted both Dutch immigrants and British colonials. That meant Canada, Australia, or New Zealand. It also meant I would have to quit my favourite country, and Jürgen his homeland and family.

We tossed a coin.

At the New Zealand Embassy in Rotterdam, Jürgen filed an application for immigration. It would take about six months to process.

We had six months to say ‘goodbye’ to Europe.

I handed in my resignation to Berlitz. It felt like cutting off an arm.

Thanks to my refusal to spend money on anything not conducive to health and genuine happiness, I’d managed to save a little. But how long would it last? A simple calculation indicated that, converted to U.S.A. dollars, we had enough to last for six months if we spent no more than four dollars a day – for the two of us!

The popular travel guide - Europe on $5.00 a Day, convinced us we’d be okay because their estimate included staying in pensions and youth hostels.

We bought small rucksacks, cheap sleeping bags, a billy, a petrol cooker, and a water bottle to share. With careful packing, there was just enough space for one pair of long trousers, shorts, two shirts, socks, underpants, pullover, my battery Philips electric razor, a raincoat and sandals.

Then one sunny morning we stood by the roadside, held out our thumbs and set off hitchhiking through every country in Western Europe, then on to Turkey and Iran… buying flour and sugar, cheese and eggs, cooking most meals in the billy in quiet spots away from prying eyes, drinking only water, sleeping under bushes, in culverts, in forests and parks… always leaving the place cleaner than we’d found it with no trace of our stay. Cheap pensions or hotels were a last resort in crowded cities. Never taking public transport, walking for miles and miles to all the places of interest we simply had to see, washing in rivers, public fountains, and at roadside taps, never leaving soap residues or other evidence of our passing, always looking neat, fresh, clean, and shaved, unlike most other hitch-hikers who apparently thought being tough meant not washing body, clothes, or hair. They gave themselves away, however, by eating in restaurants and always sleeping in youth hostels or cheap hotels, never under bushes like us. Despite being two men, we enjoyed the most astonishing generosity and hospitality from locals in villages and towns, and always got rides within a few minutes, whereas other hitchhikers’ scruffiness meant they frequently ended up taking a bus.

Jürgen was the first educated, civilized person I’d met who enjoyed living like that, and whose likes and interests coincided with mine. If we could survive for a year constantly in each other’s company, we could obviously put up with each other for the ninety-nine years we promised one glorious afternoon in the colourful medieval apse of Saint Germain des Prés in Paris.

After seven months we received notification while in Tehran that his application for immigration had been successful, so we hitched back to Holland and booked the cheapest possible berths on the Flavia, a smallish Italian liner sailing via the Panama Canal.

Four weeks sharing a cabin on the lowest deck with ten other single men was not as bad as expected. We spent the days on deck swimming, sunbathing, playing bridge, warding off females, and, having no money to spare, went to bed early with time for a cuddle; Jürgen in the top bunk, me standing beside my lower berth, a bag in front of the closed door as a warning, ready to pretend we were simply chatting.

The voyage was fun, especially the Panama Canal and Tahiti, and we arrived in Auckland relaxed but increasingly nervous. The Dominion of New Zealand had adopted without question the confrontational British political and legal systems, including laws stating it was a serious criminal offence for any male to touch another male’s sexual organ.

Fortunately, it wasn’t considered strange for a young man to return from his Overseas Experience with a friend, and as there were numerous Dutch immigrants, even his nationality wasn’t odd.

 

I've never believed in lucky stars or any other supernatural ephemera, but our good luck has never ceased to astonish me. It could have something to do with the fact that we have no solid plans or unrealistic expectations and accept whatever is on offer, making the best of it.

We landed in Auckland. It seemed very small and provincial to my now worldly eyes. Stayed with a University friend for two days to collect our trunks from the hold of the ship, then used almost the last of my savings on train tickets to Wellington, and ferry fares to Lyttleton – the port of Christchurch.

In Wellington, Jürgen wandered into the Head Office of the Department of Agriculture – the largest employer of scientists - and asked if they needed one.

They did! In a country town a hundred and fifty kilometres up the coast, so while he went there by bus for an interview, I went to the Education Department and to my astonishment they offered me a teaching job in the same town!

It was the start of the six-week summer school holidays, so we took the overnight ferry across Cook Strait and my parents were waiting in Lyttleton. They welcomed Jürgen warmly, insisting he call them Mum and Dad. [My father developed a particular affection for him that lasted until his death.]

After Christmas we moved north to our jobs, which we both enjoyed immensely. A tiny, tenth-hand fiat 500, was all the wheels we could afford, but it was reliable for trips to the beach and surrounding forest ranges. A year later Jürgen was transferred to Auckland, so I broke my contract and applied for work in that city – vast in area, if not in population. Incredibly, I ended up in the best job I've ever had in an establishment that shared a boundary with Jürgen’s research institute! Our elegant rented flat was a five minute walk away.

We love each other unconditionally, but that doesn't mean we never argue. I’m a pushy bastard, Jürgen isn't, but he can dig his heels in deeper than I can push, so as we’re both enthusiastically independent our arguments can be loud and explosive. Fortunately, the tenants in the upstairs flat were even noisier and more argumentative than us, but the single lady in the adjoining flat was not impressed.

Not so long ago, a young Internet correspondent was shocked to learn that after more than half a century together, Jürgen and I still argue. I explained that only people who don’t love each other don’t argue. They don’t care what their partner feels, and if they get annoyed they clear out. We bicker and argue for fun sometimes, ending with a laugh at our idiocy. Most arguments occur because people are overtired. It’s fun making up, even if it occasionally takes a long time. We’ve never been silly enough to go to bed with an argument unsorted. It’d be a grave mistake to let one’s partner brood over an injustice all night.

Because ‘only married couples argue’, we decided to avoid unwanted assumptions about our relationship by seeking somewhere more secluded. With a small loan we bought a ten-acre block of land in the Waitakere Ranges thirty minutes away, where we designed and built our first simple little house. On weekends we’d drive past a commercial building site, make drawings of what we had to do next, then continue on and follow our sketchy instructions, using only hand tools as there was no electricity and we couldn’t afford power tools anyway.

It worked. The building inspector had no complaints so we moved in and Jürgen had a vast area to fill with plants, and I had a house to finish, fences to build, and three cows, six sheep and a dozen hens to house and water.

Utter bliss! No neighbours near enough to notice us. We could shout as loud as we liked.

To paraphrase the old song, two can live as cheap as one, and it surely is a lot more fun. We were both earning good money, are both frugal, dislike owing anything to anyone, and don’t want anything that isn't genuinely conducive to a happy life, so we saved money. Needless to say, our definition of happiness is not that espoused by most people we meet.

Home grown, unsprayed fruit and vegetables and our own home-killed and butchered meat, together with lots of exercise kept us happy, healthy and out of trouble.

Looking back, I’m astonished at our energy – full time jobs, keeping the property fenced and productive, going to every performance of live theatre, film Festivals, the beach, skiing at Ruapehu, dinner with friends, mainly heterosexuals because gays didn’t approve of us setting a bad example to young gays. We weren’t hedonists and didn’t party. Worse, we were monogamous, and have been since the day we met. Free love was the mantra in the late sixties and seventies and every homosexual man or woman had a duty to spread their love, to have sex with as many people as possible. Not be selfish. Not emulate the heterosexual enemy!

We didn’t take their advice, have never contracted a dread disease, and are now considered to be the norm… ho-hum queers living in boring domesticity.

‘And who does the cooking?’ Female visitors ask sweetly, because hets can’t help assuming that one plays the woman while the other the man. They seem incapable of understanding that if I wanted a woman I’d have married one. I want a man, full stop. Certainly not a man who acts like a woman! We’re just ourselves - like everyone else.

To be fair, it is a reasonable question. Heterosexuals today also have a problem deciding on their roles. With us, whoever got hungry first, cooked. Whoever got sick of the mess first, tidied it up. We gravitated to the things we preferred. I like machines and will follow instructions. Jürgen has an indomitable spirit that accepts no harness - definitely no instructions from maintenance manuals and recipe books, so he digs gardens, gathers seeds, propagates, and harvests. He also doesn’t mind shopping. That’s a type of harvesting. I’d rather starve than go to a supermarket. I’ll dig gardens but can’t be bothered to pick the fruits. We just fit together. Whether by instinct or necessity I’ve no idea.

As for sex - human sexual activity varies from total celibacy to mass orgies; from exclusive homosexuality to exclusive heterosexuality, with every possible permutation in between. After the initial few years of almost insatiable sexual appetite, sex assumes it’s rightful place – a pleasant activity that cements a relationship. It becomes less important than eating and sleeping, because you can’t do without either of those two things. It is character and compatibility that counts, not the gender of the person you love or the way you achieve satisfaction or how often. As I never tire of repeating… Loving companionship, that's what it’s all about in the end.

After twenty years, the bare hill we bought had become a tree and shrub-filled pleasure garden. We had taken regular holidays abroad, mainly to Europe, visiting the U.S.A. and ‘The East’ on the way. At first by ship, and then by plane, recharging our ‘cultural batteries’ as my Headmaster used to say.

Eventually, the endless wind, wet and cold of New Zealand got to us. We had saved enough to retire and looked around for somewhere warm. Giving up my teaching position was a severe wrench, as I’d developed good relationships with students over the years – a few of whom used to visit us on the ‘farm’ and occasionally still communicate thirty years later. Jürgen did not like leaving the research side of his work, but was pleased to be leaving the backbiting competitiveness of other scientists.

As we were only forty-eight, we considered spending five years in each of a series of different countries, but after researching population, security, financial and political stability etc, we took an extended drive along the East Coast of Australia and decided we’d done enough travelling. The world had changed too much. It wasn’t fun any more.

After an interesting year in Brisbane, we settled further north in a beach suburb in the sub tropics – pleasantly warm but no cyclones, crocodiles, dengue, malaria or stingers that make the tropics unpleasant.

We bought and renovated several houses, I acted in a few plays, we swam a great deal, Jürgen made gardens in every property, while I brought everything up to scratch and maintained it. Predictably, the charming beachside town grew exponentially with hordes of retirees streaming up from the south for sunshine, so we sold everything and moved to our present forested acreage in the hinterland, where over the last twenty-two years Jürgen has turned a stony hillside with a scattering of scrawny eucalypts into a luxurious forest with fruit trees, shrubs and vegetables, alive with a hundred varieties of birds, large monitor lizards, kangaroos, bandicoots, echidnas, insects…

Everything is wild and natural – no lawns and paths, just walkways like tunnels under trees, like living in a real forest – and all created by a couple of ageing men, usually without the aid of power tools. It’s become a geriatric playground. Occupational therapy because getting old’s no joke. When you’re young you stay more or less fit no matter what you do and eat. But by the time you’ve been going for more than seventy years, keeping fit and healthy is a delicate balancing act.

Having ‘done’ the working, travelling, parties, concerts, socialising thing, we’re now contented with our own company. We know what we’re missing and don’t imagine we are missing out.

A while ago on TV a patronising interviewer asked a sprightly ninety-nine year old, “How did you manage to get so old?’ “I didn’t die,” she responded tartly. And that’s more or less how people’s relationships become life-long; they don’t give up. It has nothing to do with being queer or straight. Couples are couples. And despite the entire world-order being weighted in favour of heterosexual marriage, in some ways it’s as hard for heterosexuals to stay together as for us. Their friends are always ready to gossip, seduce, and create problems. In-laws start stress fractures and half of all marriages break down. A good relationship has nothing to do with sexual orientation, but everything to do with wanting one and working hard to keep it.

Like all living things, we are constantly changing/growing, so there’s no possibility of getting bored with each other. With time, a relationship between equals becomes deeper, more complex, more and more interesting. Other people cease to be stimulating except through their creations, because one so easily plumbs the superficial façade they present.

We’ve never thought of separating because I remember too clearly the lonely searching for a mate at twenty-four. I’m one of those unfortunates who feel incomplete without someone to love. We’ve got used to each other. The snappy remarks that used to wound mean nothing. Horrendous arguments blow over. An occasional lack of interest isn’t a deliberate insult - certainly not worth risking the loss of having someone else in the other chair every evening, listening to music, watching television, reading, talking, or just sitting. It’s useful having someone to tell you honestly what you look like or how dumb you’ve been, and it’s fun to keep your body trim when someone’s there to praise the result. Perhaps the best thing is that the same lines, sags and pouches appear on your mate as on yourself.

Loneliness and hard work poison the soul. With no one to show things to, my heart would break, in the same way as visiting Venice alone invites a terminal case of sadness. Everyone has to feel needed, challenged, excited, useful, angry, fearful, loving and loved from time to time. Anonymous sex and drugs are what people turn to if those needs aren’t filled. But a permanent, loving relationship provides all that and more. There’s no need for drugs.

A lifelong, loving relationship is not an impossible dream if you have realistic desires and a determination to see them through. Instant and continual happiness is never going to happen to anyone, but friendship and love will bring contentment - a much more valuable state than impermanent happiness.’

Carpe Diem. Grab the day. We exist in a constant series of present moments, so enjoy the moment, because we only exist in the present and if we don’t enjoy each present moment, then we will never enjoy anything. We do not exist in the future, and living in the past with memories is a poor substitute for reality.

I have no regrets about anything I've done, but my heart still thumps if I think about what my life would have been had our paths not crossed that evening, and if we’d hesitated instead of grabbing hold of the most valuable thing any human can experience – love.

R.T. December 2018.

 

Post Script.

We live in interesting times

In the twenty-three years we’ve lived in this 100 year-old wooden house on a forested ridge, surrounded by national parks and state forests, the climate has inexorably changed from wet sub-tropics to very dry very hot sub-tropics. According to pundits the change is permanent and increasing. This year we have had half the usual annual rainfall, nothing for the last eight months and none predicted by long range forecasts until well into 2020. The water table has sunk too low for the trees to drink from and they’re tossing off leaves and large branches. Temperatures in the 40º+ C. 104º+ F] are now normal. Shrubs and other ornamentals are dying. Mangoes won’t mature, neither will peaches and other fruit. Our large pond that has always provided generously, is dry.

There are fires everywhere, each the worst the Rural Fire Service can remember. This has never happened before. If someone tosses a lighted cigarette butt out a car window, our place will go up like a bomb and we’ll be forced out of our comfortable retreat into a new adventure. Jürgen agrees it could be interesting. The possibilities are intriguing. We never say no to a challenge, so have packed our bags just in case.

Sadly, the 45 year-long ‘Queer Spring’ of social liberation during which homosexual activity was decriminalised is drawing to a close in Australia, with new laws permitting religions to discriminate to their heart’s content. Homophobia, like racism, has never gone away here, merely kept a low profile. It seems to me that Houseman’s poems are still relevant 120 years later, and same-sex-oriented men should be vigilant.

The football star who last month declared that the dreadful fires were God’s punishment for Marriage Equality, was not a lone voice. In difficult times everyone is looking for a scapegoat, and, being different we are ready-made for the position.

 

R.T. December 2019.

 

Oh Who Is That Young Sinner?

Oh who is that young sinner with the handcuffs on his wrists?
And what has he been after that they groan and shake their fists?
And wherefore is he wearing such a conscience-stricken air?
Oh they're taking him to prison for the colour of his hair.

'Tis a shame to human nature, such a head of hair as his;
In the good old time 'twas hanging for the colour that it is;
Though hanging isn't bad enough and flaying would be fair
For the nameless and abominable colour of his hair.
Oh a deal of pains he's taken and a pretty price he's paid
To hide his poll or dye it of a mentionable shade;
But they've pulled the beggar's hat off for the world to see and stare,
And they're hauling him to justice for the colour of his hair.

 

A E Houseman.

 

My Novels in the order they were written.

 

Rough Justice is about possible consequences of religious bigotry and homophobia; how a good parent deals with their child’s sexual orientation; de-stigmatising exhibitionism, and suggestions for maintaining loving relationships.

Dome of Death is a thriller revolving around the consequences of climate change and rising seas on unsustainable coastal ‘development’.

Sebastian is an unashamed defence of the joys of innocent nudity and sex in a country that’s becoming increasingly prudish, and nude equates to rude, although participation in wars and their murder, torture, terrorism, is seen as not only essential but heroic.

Jarek takes a tongue in cheek swipe at the extreme elements of women’s liberation, while offering a serious alternative to the way we currently teach our children.

Mortaumal is a light-hearted tale about death and dying, affection and callous indifference, independence and love, somewhere in tropical Queensland. Mortaumal gets himself into and out of very hot water while learning to defend himself both physically and mentally in a fast paced romp in which there’s sentiment but not sentimentality, social criticism, excitement, fun, and a bit of everything else.

Fidel weaves his brave but dangerous path through the morass of a fundamentalist religious takeover of government, and the ‘heroes’ of my other books join forces.

NumbaCruncha After a chilling peek at the near future, NumbaCruncha takes a thousand year leap into the future, where the activities of humans have reached their logical culmination in a flesh-crawlingly evil dystopia ruled by the most unpleasant gang of conmen and women you're ever likely to encounter. Meanwhile, back in the forest, Sebastian and Jarek’s genetically evolved Men are waiting.

Frankie Fey questions everything while living an exciting, sometimes dangerous existence as he searches for meaning and purpose in Australia and India.

Thanks for reading, reacting and the occasional comment. All feedback/questions are welcome about any part of Dancing Bare.

And thanks to GA for providing such an excellent site.

Cheers,

Rigby.

Copyright © 2019 Rigby Taylor; All Rights Reserved.

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This has been a wonderful story of a life well lived and well loved. I’m not quite as old as Rigby, but still remember vividly the ten months I spent wandering around Europe, Russia and North America in 1974. At the time I was deeply in the closet, so didn’t have the erotic adventures; but did meet wonderful people - some of whom are still my friends. I met my partner, now husband, 36 years ago and can relate to what Rigby declares as the joys of a long term relationship. May there be more stories to come. 

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Rigby, thank you for sharing your‘story’ with us! I’ve thoroughly enjoyed reading this!

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What an amazing start to an unfinished journey!

You seemed to have rushed the last 50ish years (in your story, anyway), but they obviously worked for you!

My partner and I waited until we were both 40. But we have done a lot in the last 20 years. Not sure we will get to 50 years together, my family have a habit of falling off the twig one month after their 75th birthdays, (so I'll be stuffing up the family Christmas in 2033!) but we will give it a go. 

We don't tend to argue...we explain until the other understands....its worked for us! 

Very impressed with the amount you packed in in the first 25 years. A good life time of stories. Just watch "Years and Years" (Netflix) a future dystopia, but it finished with the stupidity of preserving us and our bodies for some sort of immortality as the "us" that makes us is our connections to others, the stories and histories.....

Thank you for taking us on your journey. Fascinating, challenging, bloody scary at times, but very human, very insightful. 

All the best for the next stages,

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2 hours ago, Lorenzo46 said:

This has been a wonderful story of a life well lived and well loved. I’m not quite as old as Rigby, but still remember vividly the ten months I spent wandering around Europe, Russia and North America in 1974. At the time I was deeply in the closet, so didn’t have the erotic adventures; but did meet wonderful people - some of whom are still my friends. I met my partner, now husband, 36 years ago and can relate to what Rigby declares as the joys of a long term relationship. May there be more stories to come. 

Thank you Lorenzo for commenting and enjoying the story. I'm pleased you have found a good relationship after those closeted  years. As for more stories, have you read the 8 novels listed at the end of Dancing Bare?  All the best,  R.

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35 minutes ago, mfa607 said:

Rigby, thank you for sharing your‘story’ with us! I’ve thoroughly enjoyed reading this!

And thank you Mfa607 for taking the trouble to tell me. Very appreciated.

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20 minutes ago, Canuk said:

What an amazing start to an unfinished journey!

You seemed to have rushed the last 50ish years (in your story, anyway), but they obviously worked for you!

My partner and I waited until we were both 40. But we have done a lot in the last 20 years. Not sure we will get to 50 years together, my family have a habit of falling off the twig one month after their 75th birthdays, (so I'll be stuffing up the family Christmas in 2033!) but we will give it a go. 

We don't tend to argue...we explain until the other understands....its worked for us! 

Very impressed with the amount you packed in in the first 25 years. A good life time of stories. Just watch "Years and Years" (Netflix) a future dystopia, but it finished with the stupidity of preserving us and our bodies for some sort of immortality as the "us" that makes us is our connections to others, the stories and histories.....

Thank you for taking us on your journey. Fascinating, challenging, bloody scary at times, but very human, very insightful. 

All the best for the next stages,

😙

Thank you, Canuk for accompanying me with your comments for the last 2 weeks, and for your generous praise, it is very appreciated.  The potted bio of the last 50 years was added  only after someone wrote and complained when the story finished with my meeting Jurgen... he demanded to at least know if we stayed together, so I wrote the epilogue.

Writing a memoir when I am  not famous, was already presumptuous enough, without continuing with a memoir of the rest, and it wouldn't be that different from many other people's lives. When I started, all I wanted to do was compare the difference between the 1960s and today, because I do not think the changes in the interim have improved the well-being of life on earth.

I'm impressed that you and your partner explain your differences patiently, I hope that next time I'll be born with a more placid temperament.

75 is a bit young to fall off a twig, although as long as it's quick and painless it's better than dragging on forever. Years and Years sounds a bit creepy to someone who sees humans [and most other animals] as discrete individuals.

All the best to you too,

R.😊

 

 

 

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Absolutely incredible and amazing life.  You’ve experienced more than most would dare to dream of.  Yet you remain a thoroughly decent and grounded man.  I’ve said before that if I ever met you, I would certainly fall in love with you and it is as true today as ever before. ❣️❣️

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54 minutes ago, Okiegrad said:

Absolutely incredible and amazing life.  You’ve experienced more than most would dare to dream of.  Yet you remain a thoroughly decent and grounded man.  I’ve said before that if I ever met you, I would certainly fall in love with you and it is as true today as ever before. ❣️❣️

Ha, Ha Anthony, you are far too kind. But that doesn't stop me appreciating your very generous compliments.  If you met me you'd find a scrawny almost 80 year-old as silly and impetuous as the 20 year-old who set out to see the world... Some people simply never mature, it seems... apart from nicely maturing wrinkles, of course. :kiss:

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Strange that both your keenest followers are called "Anthony"....

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12 minutes ago, Canuk said:

Strange that both your keenest followers are called "Anthony"....

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Don't tell me... you are named...? Also strange is that it is my favourite name and as a youth I always wanted to be called Anthony - not Tony, and when I lose things I ask Saint Anthony of Padua to assist..:rofl:

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Thank you for letting me enjoy your adventures and share in your vision of life. I read this with great pleasure and interest. Just like the stories you posted here. They've influenced my vision of life and the world.

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Thank you Ullyssess! You could not have written a more welcome and appreciated comment. Writing is an odd occupation. Stories are sent on their way and disappear into the void. Then occasionally someone like you writes and tells the author his tale is still alive and appreciated, and he feels a warm glow of genuine pleasure. You have made my day.

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I dont know if you go back and look for comments so long after the story was published, but here goes.

You are so much more adventurious than most people. I would never have been taken the chances that you did.  I can certainly understand your dismay at seeing how places have changed over the years. Most of my travels were in the 1990's/early 2000's and even now I can see the changes and glad I'm able to say "been there done that". Your discription of your time in Egypt made me smile when I compared it to my own. We went in 1997.

We were in New Zealand (for the second time) last year and were amazed at how little travel there was between towns. So for you to just jump on a ship to the other side of the world certainly was an adventure back in the 60's.

I am so pleased that things have worked out for both of you. Enjoy the rest of your life even more if you can....

Steve

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10 hours ago, bedseller said:

I dont know if you go back and look for comments so long after the story was published, but here goes.

You are so much more adventurious than most people. I would never have been taken the chances that you did.  I can certainly understand your dismay at seeing how places have changed over the years. Most of my travels were in the 1990's/early 2000's and even now I can see the changes and glad I'm able to say "been there done that". Your discription of your time in Egypt made me smile when I compared it to my own. We went in 1997.

We were in New Zealand (for the second time) last year and were amazed at how little travel there was between towns. So for you to just jump on a ship to the other side of the world certainly was an adventure back in the 60's.

I am so pleased that things have worked out for both of you. Enjoy the rest of your life even more if you can....

Steve

Thank you Steve for such pleasant and thoughtful comments. [I get an email alert when people comment, which is good.] Yes, the world is changing rapidly, but without direction unfortunately - sort of shambling off in all directions. Capitalists tugging us towards increased consumption, and environmentalists desperately trying to stop what seems to be the inevitable  extinction of life as we know it. Interesting that you visited New Zealand, twice! Having experienced it, you can perhaps understand why I jumped ship as soon as possible.:rofl:  Unfortunately,  here in Australia it's become bad in a different way. Ah me, why is the world not perfect?

Anyway, thanks for commenting. You also make sure you  enjoy the rest of your life. Jurgen and I are still doing that, only now  instead of travelling we've become  hermits on our acreage, keeping the rest of the world away.

Cheers,

Rigby

 

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