Having been on the receiving end as a woman who'd had one child at the time I CANNOT imagine how it could be pleasurable to a man. Clearly I must be wanting in the breadth of my imagination.

I CANNOT imagine how it could be pleasurable to a man.

I can't either. Maybe Mark Arbour can answer.

If you've ever seen my fist, you sure wouldn't want it there.

You know, I learned a lot about kink when I wrote fisting into "Man in Motion." I used to make those knee-jerk reactions and judgements ("That's gross," or "Why would anyone do that?" or "What kind of pervert to you have to be to do that"). OK, maybe I wasn't that bad, but I was pretty intolerant. When I started to read about it, I was struck by how often these kinky acts are actually done in a very loving way between people who really care about each other. And hey, aren't we all, those of us on this website, for supporting people and their ability to do whatever they consent to with their partners? Pretty much anyway.

I don't see myself ever getting fisted, because I'm not a bottom to begin with, although there are a few guys I'd grab my ankles for in a NY Minute. But if I was with someone who I cared about, and who wanted me to do it, I'd give it a try. Why not?

I don't even want to know if someone is or isn't into scat.

but fisting is okay? hahahahahah =P

but fisting is okay? hahahahahah =P

Compared to scat it is. Of course, that's assuming that someone makes sure that certain areas are clean beforehand.