Mia - brickwall
Mia - a bomb has dropped into my life and the pieces are everywhere. i have not heard or spoken to someone very special to me. i last spoke to this person in the rehab center last Friday.he had knee surgery and we made plans for Sunday which was our normal day. Then my world changed went to the rehab Center and no friend / lover no word no message. Damn rules that won’t help me I’m not family. Went out to car and fell apart wondering what happen. Made a few phone calls and again that blasted brick wall. Did all the normal stuff / phone / email / went by his house nothing no reply no contact. nothing answered - no messages - no social contacts and this silence is killing me. Trying to move forward but my heart won’t let me. My head tells me it’s ok he will Call or message me .. still waiting and that is killing me. Working on the things i can change but that only last only so long. I dread that time after midnight when those voices and doubts come to mind. With the what if’s? The why? The self doubt and this is just as bad as the not knowing. My place is to be there for him but i’m not and this is killing me.
All i ask for is a message ? a call an email so many simple things we all take for granted. That one small deed would break this brick wall. So if you have a special someone hug them tell them you love them. You just never know.
added Sunday -
how do you fight silence?
Update Tuesday
came across this quote: “Listen and silent are spelled with the same letters. Think about that” nothing happens in your life without a reason or a life lesson. So taking this to heart. Letting go of the unknown and staying focus on the task at hand
update Wednesday
Good News - the brick wall has been destroyed Steve is home now and we are having supper. When he was moved his phone book was lost and that is the reason he didn’t call. We have spoken and we are stronger than before. Just wanted to update everyone.
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