It sounds like you got a life!

No fair!

Conner

Hi LC!

The one thing that worries me here is your comment of "he wants to move a little fast".

I hate to be a downer, but online dating, from what I've seen, rarely works well as so many guys who do online dating seem to be wanting just a quick hook up. (caveat; I've never tried online dating myself, and I do know of exceptions to what I'm saying). I'm just worried about that in combination with the "move fast", you and he might have very different agendas.

I will say this; don't do anything unless YOU want to. If you feel like you "have to", then its wrong, period.

Just be cautious...

CJ

Hi LC!

 

The one thing that worries me here is your comment of "he wants to move a little fast".

 

I hate to be a downer, but online dating, from what I've seen, rarely works well as so many guys who do online dating seem to be wanting just a quick hook up. (caveat; I've never tried online dating myself, and I do know of exceptions to what I'm saying). I'm just worried about that in combination with the "move fast", you and he might have very different agendas.

 

I will say this; don't do anything unless YOU want to. If you feel like you "have to", then its wrong, period.

 

Just be cautious...

 

CJ

Hey Cj

The thing is it isn't really online dating, i mean ive seen him in person, and thats why i looked him up on myspace. We live about an hour apart, but hes always in my area for school and work and such. But i know what you mean thats what im scared of, is that he just wants sex or something, idk. He said hes looking for a lTR but idk, i guess well see. But yeah i know ill be very cautious thanks!

-Mike

Mike!!

I'm so sorry to hear you got into an accident! I'm so glad you're okay! Wow! That musta been really scary!

As for the guy...well I was discussing dating with a friend of mine recently. It seems I'm always about to date someone but then always decide it won't work out for whatever reason. And he basically told me that the whole reason to date is to see if it'll work out. So with that in mind, as long as you feel physically safe and unintimidated I say go for it! The worst that can happen is that you find out you don't like the direction in which things are going and that he's not the guy for you. In which case you can just say "NO", and not see him again. As long as saying "NO" and not seeing him again are viable options, I think you should give it a try!

Just my thoughts!

take care and be careful

-Kevin

Mike!!

 

I'm so sorry to hear you got into an accident! I'm so glad you're okay! Wow! That musta been really scary!

 

As for the guy...well I was discussing dating with a friend of mine recently. It seems I'm always about to date someone but then always decide it won't work out for whatever reason. And he basically told me that the whole reason to date is to see if it'll work out. So with that in mind, as long as you feel physically safe and unintimidated I say go for it! The worst that can happen is that you find out you don't like the direction in which things are going and that he's not the guy for you. In which case you can just say "NO", and not see him again. As long as saying "NO" and not seeing him again are viable options, I think you should give it a try!

 

Just my thoughts!

 

take care and be careful

-Kevin

Hey Kev

Yeah for now we are just talking, but its very intresting to say the least. And idk i seem to be always thinking about him, but i know i got to cool it. Ive been with a needy person before and i wont be like that. So i need to keep my mind off him haha. Hell for all i know it might not even work out, but at least ill try!

Thanks for the kind words and advise guys.

-Mike