Because once again we are skipping questions I will answer both.
I was one of those unfortunate enough to come home and actually catch my partner in bed with another. End of relationship and all dealings with him. I can't forgive nor forget.
As a kid I stole a pack of gum. My mother found out, lets say I couldn't sit for a while, had to back to the store, tell the owner, pay for it, while she stood and watched me like a hawk. Nothing bothers you more than letting down a parent who is there for you. Lesson learned.
What is the one thing you wish people to remember you for?