What is a real man? You ask such a deep question with five simple words, which has several answers depending on whom you ask. Those five words have provided endless debate for several decades. In light of the more out among us the definition might now be modified again...however slight or great that may be. Several of you have provided points, poetry, prose, and quotes as guidelines, which I may end up repeating here. I don't usually post on such deep topics, I'm a fun lover--you should take notes.
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What is a real man?
A real man is compassionate toward others, without compromise,
A real man accepts the compassion of others without feeling compromised.
A real man shows support and lifts friends up when they're down,
A real man lets friends support and lift him up when he is down.
A real man listens to friends,
A real man lets them talk about anything on their mind which troubles them;
A real man will share his burdens with friends, talking about anything on his mind which troubles him.
A real man cares enough to be honest and tell friends what he thinks whether or not they want to hear it--even if it shocks them;
A real man apologizes to his friends if he has hurt their feelings.
A real man cares enough about his friends that he will listen to what they have to tell him, even if he doesn't want to hear it;
A real man accepts apologies from his friends when they feel that they have hurt him.
A real man cares about and for his friends,
A real man loves all his friends.
A real man celebrates happy occasions with friends,
A real man joins a friend who needs to celebrate their happy occasion.
A real man shares bad news and cries with friends,
A real man lets his friends share their bad news then cries with them, too.
A real man shows affection toward friends without compromise for fear of what others might think.
A real man is not so much a man, as a human being,
A real man is not afraid to show his humanity.
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