It can be very hard for someone to come out to their family, especially if they're sure the reaction is going to be bad. Financial dependence on that family only makes the situation harder. I feel for Alek. It's a tough spot to be in.
I don't know a lot about the culture of the NFL, MLS or MLB when it comes to gay athletes, but I did grow up with a hockey playing brother and cousins and know those dressing rooms have the potential to be cruel, especially in an amateur men's league where no governing body will mandate good behaviour. (Although that may be changing now)
Thank you for another great review, Droughtquake