I don't think a hot toddy would be a good idea, spyke. I am trying to take care of myself, though. Love all the speculation. You're a clever bunch, but I hold the power, right?
You are so kind to say you feel in the room. Your praise is expressed so well, and I truly appreciate the boost. For me, it's about hard work and attention to detail... to every aspect of a scene. I write the scene, and then turn it upside down and backwards to see if the feel and balance are there. Sometimes I get it right the first time, but usually not quite.
Thanks for this, my friend.