Effeminate men really don't bother me at all, we are what we are. What really bugs me is when they make it so OTT you know it's an act for attention.
We were out Thursday night with some straight friends at a gay pub, & this one guy, very drunk, was just screeching every 2 minutes or so. You know the kind I mean, darlin this darlin that & making a really high pitched put on camp laugh! Grrr.
In case you think he's like that normally, he's not, have known him for a while.
Now, as to if I'd date one, well yeah, have been for the last 5 years, lol. He's not by any stretch a flamer, but as soon as you speak to him you would know.
When he's had a few drinks, well there would be no doubt.
It's really strange really, cos I always went for the totally butch masculine type, so this was new for me, but it works.
As to where I put myself, well I just asked D, & he reckons definatly masculine. So there you have it, pays to have a second opinion.