Krista

Edith needs to leave poor Harold alone. Let the man dream. lol

Yeah, their second time touching one another went a lot farther than I thought they'd be comfortable with going. At least for who they are as characters and where they are within life and the relationship in general.

Well... good thing he's not a member of this community. We can't have him see that a lot of you are taking his side on anything. No. It is not healthy for him. and he'd come off with something like.. "Ahaha the gays love me.." and I'll have to do constant damage control.

Oh goodness me...

If there were cameras, they got a bit of a show... at least an almost naked romp around the living room and kitchen from a dude they never met... something I hope to never see on any cameras, but we only have outside cameras around the house. And mostly we only see what my neighbor's cats are up to, birds, and the occasional raccoon or opossum. I do know when the Amazon orders get delivered though.

Lol. You kind of went through a bit of a rollercoaster of emotions there... 😮 I was being teamed up on! I couldn't think through the whole equation and come out with my own answer. All the peer pressures, promises, discussions I can't remember... But now I'm a bit more into my mind about where and how I want them to be.

Yeah! 110 notifications my goodness. I was here during the real time discussions and it was a lot. I did a lot of second glances and.. my most dominant thought was somewhere between... "my goodness..." and.. "oh my lord, why..." but I survived mostly. That whole beautiful scene was so cute when I wrote it. He did forget himself, allowed himself to be fully in the moment and it was so nice to see him like that. The whole night was a mix of nerves and freedom for him. I think we've all calmed down, maybe... As far as how they figure things out, I agree it will take more than a couple of times trying new things to really know what they like. I think that happens universally with this stuff... even with heterosexual couples. It shifts, when I was first thinking about this sort of thing I had some body hair hang-ups on guys, but now I don't mind body and/or facial hair. So even if one of them primarily does one thing now, later on down the road it may shift a bit... I don't like to live in constant absolutes, but I do know that with a lot of people there's a lot they won't do.

It was a bit of a waste of water... tsk tsk tsk.

Seems like a perfect guy night, to be fair. 😮 Even for a guy that doesn't really like pizza.

Yeah, very limited experiences there. Can't really expect the same outcome if you're watching such things on the interwebs either... it isn't realistic.

I am horrified by this... completely...

I was warned you had this kind of potential. *shakes head*

He gives me dirty looks when I reach for the sauce after he fixes steaks, but I smile and add more. I also like mine done a bit more than he does as well. I forgive him for his dirty jokes and what have you, he can forgive me this. Or he can be the little spoon to our 100lb lab/coon dog mix. I win a lot of disagreements with that threat alone. Taking away me as his plaything wins me the other half.

Excuse you, sir... but I'm innocent. Oh ffs, I finally responded to the fabulous one thing...

Me... totally me. I don't know if the therapist I'll be seeking out after this will be professionally prepared to handle all this.

Oh no, I've been married to that man long enough for him to have witnessed me watching saucy films. Well I make him watch them with me, to be fair (and I do mean actual Plot driven films like from Hollywood, before you people freak out). The other day I was watching Heated Rivalry on my laptop and he got curious right in the middle of one of the many sex scenes the show provides. Taught him a lesson, I'm sure.

Sigh.. I did. I gave right in to y'all, because this is new writing. It wasn't in the original. But I kept thinking... I can't allow this to not be a thing that I leave out. I have worked on their relationship up to the flirting, deeper thoughts, connections, and if I 'never' allow them to go where they're naturally wanting to go... I'll be ran out of my own comments section. But I may end up ran out anyway... 😮 but we'll see if I can be brave.

Now wait a minute... vacuum lines on the carpet, perfectly straight you say? You should have led with that. Although, there's no carpet in my house. The rugs on the other hand still would require that sort of attention But, the fact that you're that detailed oriented whilst cleaning... come on now. I'm feeling a slight regret here.

Well that sold me, Joel is the bottom. Congratulations. To add... Davin read to me as someone who was living by.. "fake it til you make it..." he didn't know exactly what he was doing... but was confident in what he was doing in order to do it. He may have some experience, maybe with himself.. he hasn't said as much though.

I'm personally not sold on Joel being a bottom. But if it saves me 40k words in writing, sure he can be the bottom, because I'd have to introduce a lot of other variables and character stuff for all of that to take shape. And, it isn't you, it's me. That should work, surely? *whistles* Also, you have far too much energy and training requirements before you'd be suitable as my pet.

Okay, I'll have to take deep breaths. I wrote this chapter, I know what's in it. I can't turn around and be all bashful in the comments section now. But yeah, they experimented a lot farther than they've been before. Going from just a mutual J/o to everything they did in this chapter. Joel isn't ready for the next step, you're right. So it might be a process. Unless Davin is the more willing one after it is all settled. It could end up being both of them as well. It is difficult to put a lot of weight on first times. Joel seemed to enjoy everything Davin did to him. Davin was eager to do everything he wanted in order to get Joel there too, so.

So are you a.. "A good steak doesn't need sauce..." person, or are you a... "A steak, good or not, it is okay to add a little sauce on?" Because, those discussions get heated... my husband is of the mind that a nicely prepared steak needs no help from a sauce. I desire sauce on my steak..