Put it this way. When I was on vacation and visiting one brother, another called looking for sympathy because he'd just gotten out of the hospital (Covid). Big mistake. Never come looking for sympathy. I'll offer but only if it's not solicited.
So I put him on speaker so he could talk to all of us (me, hubs, MIL, other brother and SIL)
After making fun of him for 20 minutes he got pissed and finally said he needed to go. I would've hung up after 2 minutes. He was one of the worst instigators when I was a kid so I don't feel bad now. Lol. My other brother thought it was a riot.