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  1. He's said that he would go. There are days when adulting is really hard and this is one of them.
  2. Thanks for your thoughts tim. There's nothing to be sorry for. I just talked with his therapist and there's good and bad news. Bad news is that because he is now 18 he can't be reenrolled in services thru CPS (child protective service) Good news is that she's going to send me info on services he may be eligible for. Because of the whole deal with not having insurance, we now have to figure out what he will qualify for now that he's 18. Hopefully we can get him enrolled in Medicaid. It will fall completely on my shoulders as usual to figure it all out. He doesn't like to read, but he has his music as his outlet. He left last night as I was getting home. He said he was going to a job with a friend laying cable at a construction site. He was still gone this morning. I guess I'll get more info when I get home. I guess I'm tired, stressed, and just plain worried. I'm grateful for this forum as an outlet. Thanks again tim.
  3. I would love for that to be a possibility. Unfortunately my son has pretty much hated school since kindergarten. Well, maybe 1st grade. Right before Covid he was behind in two of his four classes. The only positive thing about the shut down was his teachers basically passing everyone as long as they showed up online, which he managed to do. I'd be OK with the military, but he'd need to lose about 50-60 lbs and get into at least semi decent shape first. He was working out at home for a while and then lost interest. Like I mentioned earlier...I need a brick wall to bang my head against.
  4. I highly doubt it. I think it's the consequence of being cooped up in the house pretty much since March. He's always been lazy? Lackadaisical? Something like that when it comes to helping out. I've just gotten to the end of my rope (husband too). We both work full time, I have my mom every weekend and it's been stressful not being able to go out anywhere. He runs hot and cold. He keeps telling us he's going to look for jobs, but when we try to ask, or offer suggestions he gets upset, takes things the wrong way and then we're arguing. Personally I think he doesn't trust us because we didn't protect him from the a-hole who abused him. I can't blame him for that. I'm still trying to come to terms with it. Gah, sometimes things just suck. Tomorrow is a new day, and I'm going to try to have a new attitude. It's the best I can do. Thanks for asking rick.
  5. She's calling me on my lunch hour tomorrow. I hope she can help. I'm no longer looking forward to going away this weekend if he's still angry with us. He doesn't always make the best decisions and I don't want to worry thr whole time we're gone. Thanks for the encouragement.
  6. Not a great day. I'm just in a funky mood. Waiting for my son's therapist to call. The whole incident just got to me.
  7. Apparently getting angry was NOT the right thing to do. I need a brick wall to bang my head against. Is it wrong to expect an 18 yr old to clean up after himself? Having a child who is dealing with depression and anxiety is so hard sometimes. Theoretically he should know that he needs to clean up. Realistically he's incapable and I never know if it's truly his depression or just plain laziness. He is a master manipulator and I just can't risk the consequences of guessing. I have a call in to his therapist. He officially is done, but I think he needs to go back. Hopefully he'll agree. I just get so frustrated.
  8. I love those results! I have a feeling this is going to be a long week. I have a 4 day weekend coming up with plans for a quick getaway for our anniversary. I need it to be Friday!!!🤪🤪
  9. Breakfast done Mom is back at my brother's Hubby did laundry yesterday Need more coffee Could probably sweep the floors...maybe So far, so good!
  10. Hope your pup is ok. It's amazing how attached we are to our furry kids. What kind of dog is he?
  11. Murphy's law: I order groceries for delivery. Changes can be made up to 2pm. 2:05: Text from son--Mom, can we get the stuff to make mac n cheese for 20 people? For tonite? Me: 😒
  12. Today has been a bipolar kind of day in the office. We've had people complaining and we've had people complimenting. We just don't know what we're going to get. The county was supposed to do Covid testing and flu shots today but apparently they didn't get the flu vaccine in so we had a slew of people show up for shots, and no shots to give. Ugh. On the upside, the people from the county said we had the nicest clubhouse that they had been to. 🤷‍♀️
  13. I used to crochet too, it was relaxing. I don't think I could manage to finish anything nowadays. It's hard to do anything that requires manual dexterity. I love refinishing or rehabbing stuff we pick up at thrift stores, so I think an afternoon of secondhand shopping is in my future. It's been a while.😊
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