........Ok, that is pretty much how I thought this was kinda going, I'm probably as old if not older than your dad, but I understand this 'generation'. Your right, he is probably not going to go out of his way to introduce his 'gay' son. This is, after new to them :wacko: (where have they been???) And yet on another thought, do you think he has already has suspicions of your oreintation? Hey, I don't know Drewbie, but I gotta tell you Fathers are not stupid, maybe I'm using to harsh a word here, but hey we already lived your lifetime, we really don't need a hammer to the head to figure things out. But anyway, I hope the best for you, and if you have the type of father I think........you might have, from taking his comments about the Governor, well I hope he is drawing you out. Stiill keep safe above all else. Take care!!