Actually it's not that bad, Kev. It's actually quite nice, because we love our friends anyway. Besides, think of how much safer it is to have sex with someone you know than some random stranger at a bar. Of course, you'll say something about using protection, but those can break from time to time. With a friend, you're more likely to know if he's clean. Therefore, it's safer. The other good part is that it can happen once or twice a week as you both deem necessary. It's great for when you really need some and you don't have a significant other.