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A to Z - 52. Chapter 52 Anxiety

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March 13

I don't know how to write about the last two days. Zander came home, and that’s fantastic. But a lot happened before and after that, and it's hard to decide what to write about first, because, right now, I am angry and scared and fidgety, and I can't sleep, all because of something that happened to Zander, and he had no control over it.

I guess I'll start with the snow.

I set the alarm for very early Sunday morning. Ordinarily, I would sleep in, but I knew I'd have to shovel out the Abbott's and Mrs. Marjorie. I left a note for the Stevensons and slipped out of the house. They were okay with me doing my job, and I was glad of that, as I trudged down the road through the snow. The plows hadn't come yet, and there was maybe four or five inches of heavy wet snow to shovel. I sighed.

The Abbott's went quickly, and I was shoveling Mrs. Marjorie's by around seven o'clock. Mrs. Marjorie came out of the house with a frown just as I finished up.

"Andrew, come inside. There's a phone call for you in the kitchen."

Puzzled, I followed her, wiping my boots on the mat. She handed me the landline phone.

"Andrew Stevenson?" a vaguely familiar voice came over the line to me. "This is Father Brewer over at St. James' Church. Do you remember me?"

"Yessir. What's the matter?" I asked anxiously.

"Well, Mrs. McDowell has her snowblower here at the church on permanent loan, and well, it won't start. If I remember, you were the fellow who was the expert on it, and if your grandmother can part with you for a few moments, I was hoping you could come and help me get it working in time for the early services," the minister explained.

I looked over at Mrs. McDowell. "Just a second, sir. I'll ask."

"Mrs. Marjorie? Father Brewer wants to…" I began.

"Yes, yes, I know what the man wants," she snapped, "and it's fine, Andrew, you go on ahead and help him out. I'll even call your parents to let them know you'll be late finishing with me."

I returned to the phone and promised to be at the church quickly.

"I'm really sorry about this, Mrs. Marjorie, I don't know…" I started, but again, I was cut off.

"It's not him calling here that upsets me, Andrew; I'm the only contact he has for you, God knows why. It's that he assumed I was your grandmother, for heavens' sakes! Honestly, some people haven't got any sense," she fumed.

"I'll be sure to make Father Brewer see the light," I answered, and I hurried off.

The snow blower hulked in a shed right beside the church, and Father Brewer watched me anxiously as I had a look at it. I could see the problem right away. A sparkplug wire had come loose. I reattached it quickly and had the old monster up and running noisily in just a few minutes.

"Hallelujah! Another miracle!" the reverend shouted over the din. "Can you do the clearing?" he asked.

I nodded and waved him on, so he could go back to pastoring or whatever it is ministers do when they're not preaching. I was glad to help. The big machine made good work of the snow on the walkways, and the bulk of the clearing was done by the time people started walking up to the door. I stopped the snow blower and got a shovel to scrape off the steps in time to keep ice from forming there.

On an impulse, I decided to stay for church. If nothing else, there'd be a chance to warm up. I pulled out my phone and texted home to Monica: "staying for church. Pick me up after?"

Not a minute later, her reply brought a smile to my face: "Church? :o Text when u r thru."

From my vantage point in the back, I noticed that it was more like New Year's Day than Christmas – the crowd was kind of sparse, and the singing somewhat subdued. I vaguely remembered the prayers and tried to concentrate. But the scripture got my attention:

“...for God so loved the world that he gave his only son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish, but have eternal life."

What did that mean? God gave away his son? I wished my own father had given me away – I might have avoided a lot of pain and misery. Though, on the other hand, I probably wouldn't have landed at Zander's house, either. When Father Brewer stood up to preach, he talked some more about this, and I listened. I'm not sure I understood all of what he said – Father Brewer kind of got sidetracked trying to make some story about Moses fit in – but I liked what came next.

"When you look at Jesus raised up, what are you supposed to see?" he asked everyone. "Does God want you to fixate on a grotesque, beaten, dead man, nailed to a wooden cross? Or does God want you to see Jesus in life, not merely in his death? To see love in the flesh, in life, instead of despair and a tortured ending?"

That grabbed my attention. He kept speaking, but I got lost in thought. This had a personal meaning. Could I focus on love, and leave despair behind?

After the service ended, I stayed in the pew to text Monica to come and pick me up. By the time Father Brewer made a point of shaking my hand and offering his thanks, nearly everyone had left the church.

"I really appreciate your helping us out on really short notice, Andrew," he said, taking my hand both of his, "that walkway just isn't safe unless it's cleared."

I gathered up my courage and asked a question: "Father, when you said God loved the world, did you mean he loves the whole world? All of it? Everyone?"

He looked startled to be asked such a question for a moment, but then recovered and said, "Absolutely. God loves the whole world. Every person in it."

I persisted, "What about gay people? Does God love them, too?"

Father Brewer looked at directly in the eye, very seriously, before answering: "Everybody. No exceptions."

"Even parents who beat or abandon their children?" I pressed.

Instead of answering, Father Brewer hesitated a moment, then motioned for me to follow him. "Have you got a moment? Let's sit for a second in my office." He spoke as he walked quickly down the passage to a door marked "Rector's Office."

I followed him into a warm, wood-paneled room with a desk and several comfortable-looking chairs. He waved me into one of them and left the door just slightly ajar. Seated, he gazed at me a moment and then asked,

"Andrew, are these questions purely hypothetical, or is there a personal element to them?"

I was on the spot. "Is what I tell you secret? Just between us?"

"This is completely confidential," the man said, his eyes darkened by his glasses.

And I decided I could tell him at least something.

"My question's personal. My dad and mom fought – fought so much that she left. One day, she just took off. I haven't seen her or heard from her since. My dad used to beat me. He was pretty vicious."

"I'm so sorry, Andrew," Father Brewer breathed out.

I shrugged. "He's dead now. I have a foster family, the Stevensons. Mr. Stevenson is a lawyer here in town."

Father Brewer nodded, recognizing the name, anyhow.

"And one more thing," I continued, "I'm gay."

Father Brewer sat very still for a moment. Then he spoke very carefully, but quite firmly. "God loves you, Andrew. There are no exceptions. Being gay has nothing to do with it. I don’t know you very well, Andrew, but I know this. You appear to have a kind and generous heart. You are one of those people who can be lifted up to heal the world."

I cocked my head, wondering what he meant.

"You did listen to the sermon, didn't you?" he asked.

I shifted uncomfortably. "Yessir, but I'm not sure I understood it all."

The priest smiled. "Doesn't matter. Just remember that you are beloved of God."

"But what about my mom and dad?" I couldn't leave them alone.

He sighed. "God loved your father, despite everything he may have done to you. He loves your mother, too, wherever she is. God loves everyone, but," he said, wagging his finger, "God does not like the evil people do to one another. It's not like God meant for you to be miserable or hurt."

Maybe I looked skeptical. "So what did he mean?"

"I think God meant for someone to be his hands and his arms who could rescue you from that situation," Father Brewer asserted, "Isn't that what happened?"

I sat in silence, thinking that one over. Is that what Zander was? God's hands and arms? God's warm hug? "Maybe. I don't know," I said eventually.

"I seem to remember saying something to you about miracles," Father Brewer began, but he was cut off by a sharp knock on the door. It opened, revealing a startled Monica Stevenson.

"Oh, I'm sorry, Reverend, but you have my…boy, and he asked me to pick him up," she said, sounding a little worried, maybe a little annoyed.

Father Brewer beamed and leaned back in his chair, "That's fine, Mrs. Stevenson. Andrew was just asking questions about my sermon. It's not every day that you have an attentive teenager in church, now is it?"

Despite herself, she smiled. "No, it sure isn't." She turned to me. "All ready?"

I nodded and rose from my seat. "Thank you, sir. I appreciate your time."

"No problem, Andrew. We can talk anytime." He smiled again. I have the feeling Father Brewer is a cheerful man to be around. I liked him.

Monica directed me to the driver's side of the car.

"You're driving. You've been to church, so maybe you're holy enough to avoid an accident," she went on.

I looked at her, puzzled.

"I hated driving with my kids. Garrett said I was just being overly sensitive, but teen drivers make me crazy," she explained, getting into the car. "He's at home working, but I know you need the hours behind the wheel. Just take it easy, alright?"

Now I was nervous. I went through a thorough pre-start check-up, and then started up the car. Very cautiously, I eased my way out of the parking lot. I could see Monica gripping the armrest anxiously. Maybe conversation would help.

"Where are we going?" I asked.

"Grocery store," she replied, tersely.

I nodded, and made the necessary turn. Once we were moving along Main Street, I asked, "Are you mad at me?"

She turned to me and asked "Now what makes you think that?"

"Well, because I got you out of the house on a snowy Sunday morning to pick me up…because you didn't know where I was…because I kind of abandoned you yesterday…and maybe…" I hesitated, wondering if I should mention it, "because I called you 'Mom,' on the phone."

I heard her sniffle for a moment. I couldn't see her face, I was too busy watching the road.

"Andy, I'm not mad about that. God, no. In fact, I'm very happy. What made you think I'd be angry?"

I shrugged. "I don't know. I'm not your son or anything. I'm just some kid Zander picked up out of the…"

"Stop that, Andrew. It's fine. I know I'm not your birth mother, but…well, you're one of my boys. And you just happen to love my son. If that doesn't give you the right call me 'Mom,' then I don't know what would."

I nodded.

"But you're right about one thing," she went on a little more briskly, "I did miss you yesterday. Everything go all right?"

"Yup. Kaz tried to run me into the ground, but I managed to stay with him," I asserted proudly.

"I meant the party after that," she laughed.

"Oh. Kaz set me up. It was a Track Team get-together. I was being recruited. No drinking allowed." I slowed and put on my left signal to enter the grocery store lot.

"No wild and crazy track stars?" she teased.

"Not really," I smiled, waiting a little nervously for my turn. At least I was a better driver than Mrs. Marjorie. Of course, that's not saying much.

"And did you get recruited?" This was much more like the Monica I knew.

I smiled and said nothing.

"Ooooh, stubborn boys," she laughed.

Inside, I pushed the cart and followed Monica, as she worked through the grocery list.

"Since when did you become a churchgoer?" she asked casually, picking through produce.

"It was just a crazy thing, I guess," I admitted with a small smile. "I'd been there...before, and kind of liked what I heard."

Monica nodded.

"So how come you don't go to church?" I asked.

Monica looked thoughtful before answering. "We used to go pretty regularly. I was brought up Catholic, so we all went to Queen of Peace." She laughed. "When we were young, before we were married, Garrett hung around at our house so much that my mother insisted he go to church with us one Sunday. I think her point was to either convert Garrett into a nice Italian boy or to scare him off."

"She didn't like Garrett, er, Mr. Stevenson all that much?" I asked, trying to decide what size cereal box to select.

"It's not that she didn't like him, so much as she didn't exactly approve. She thought we were too different to be a couple with a future."

I nodded and pushed the cart along.

"But even though he wasn't Catholic, Garrett came to church that day. And again the next week. And again the week after that. Mom was impressed. He didn't convert, but we got married just the same. And we had lots of children, anyway, which was what we both wanted," she continued, frowning at a display of crackers.

"So what happened?" I asked.

"Oh, about ten or twelve years ago, we began hearing rumors that a priest - not here in Blackburn, but over in Essex - was accused of molesting an altar boy," she said, turning to me seriously, "but that wasn't the end of it. It turned out not only that the rumors were true, but that the bishop and his superiors had tried to cover it up, and the priest involved was left completely unpunished."

I was suddenly queasy.

"You may not remember this, but we learned there were literally hundreds of cases just like that across the country."

I just stared at the tiles on the floor. I felt terrible.

"Garrett and I just got disgusted with the church after that. We stopped going. Maybe we shouldn't have, but that's what happened."

We moved on to the pasta section.

"Is it okay that I went to church?" I asked at length.

"Of course, honey, I'm not going to tell you not to. And I've never been to St. James, so I couldn't really tell you what they believe. But I think Dan Brewer is a good man," she asserted.

"How can you tell?" I asked, curious.

"I see him and his dog at the animal hospital every now and then," she smiled, "he's good to his animals."

A chuckle escaped my lips. I couldn't help it.

"Do you think your mother would approve of me?" I asked later on.

"I don't think she's going to get a choice," Monica replied, "you're with us now." She paused to smile at me. "Really, I can't imagine you living with some other family." She hesitated a moment. "Besides, Zander is obviously head over heels for you, and that's pretty much all there is to it."

I got a warm feeling all over hearing her say that.

By lunchtime, I was getting fidgety. Zander should have finished his races, and coach should have returned his phone. I waited for a text telling us how he did. I knew there would be a brief ceremony for handing out awards and medals, and then Zander would board the bus and come home. To me.

Monica and Garrett traded glances over their sandwiches.

"Preoccupied, Andy?" Mr. Stevenson asked, grinning.

"Maybe," I admitted, putting down my phone. "He wouldn't forget to send a message, would he?"

Immediately, my phone on the table buzzed like an angry hornet. Grabbing it, I checked my texts. There in the light blue box was a message from Zander.

"It's all over. Getting on bus, coming home."

"You do good?" I typed back. I waited for long moments, hoping for a reply. I looked up at my foster parents and shrugged. No news.

Another buzz: "Did OK. Got a surprise 4 U J." I relayed the message.

"Can't wait to C U," I returned.

"Will take longer getting back. Snowing hard," arrived quickly.

"He says it's snowing there," I informed Monica and Mr. Stevenson. "Zander says he's going to be delayed." I hoped the weather wouldn't slow him down too much.

But in this I was bound for disappointment. For a while, we traded messages, but Zander reported that the highway traffic was only crawling in the heavy snow. They were getting the same weather we got the night before.

And then the messages stopped. Eventually, I tried calling Zander's number, but it went right to voicemail. I had this terrible feeling something bad might have happened. I worked at staying calm. His battery might have run low, or maybe he decided to take a nap. I tried to get my homework done and buried my nose in a book, but the afternoon dragged by.

To keep busy, I went out to the barn and took care of the llamas. I did laundry. I did homework. I volunteered to make supper – nothing fancy, just one of my old standbys.

I tried calling Zander a bunch of times, but there was no answer. In my mind's eye, I saw Zander's bus run off an icy road and down a steep bank. I'd seen enough of those roadside drop-offs last summer. I imagined Zander lying pinned and injured under a mangled heap of twisted bus wreckage. I worried so much, I felt almost felt sick.

Over a very quiet plate of baked chicken and rice, I looked up at Monica and Garrett. "Anything from Zander?" I asked.

"Nothing recently," Mr. Stevenson said, trying to sound patient. "I got a message from Coach Simpson a while back, explaining about the weather delay. He promised to let us know when he had an arrival time."

I felt a little better hearing this; at least Zander had been okay when the coach sent that message. The landline phone rang around eight o'clock; I came downstairs to see if there was any news, but Mr. Stevenson waved me back up to my room, back to worry some more.

It was just a matter of letting time pass.

The bus ride home promised to be agonizingly slow. Exhaustion settled in quickly. Luckily, nobody joined me, and I had a pair of seats to myself. Now that it was all over, I just wanted to get home to you. I remembered how we'd talked on the phone. I was afraid of rushing things. I couldn't bear the idea of hurting you, but being so close to you at night was torment. Sweet torment, but torment. And I couldn't wait to get back to it.

You and I traded texts for a while until I noticed Coach Simpson standing in the aisle.

"Mind if I sit down?" he motioned to the seat at my side.

"No problem Coach," I said, moving over to make room for him.

"Nice job this weekend," he grunted, sliding in. "Crappy weather, though," he added, peering through the window at traffic creeping along the highway through the snow.

"Thanks," I said.

"You know why Greg Earwin wasn't at states this weekend?" Coach asked.

I nodded. It had been the big gossip topic around the pool areas between events. Word going around was that Greg got caught fucking some younger boy in the showers at his school. The kid freaked, his coach lost his job, the school board went nuts, and Greg got into some deep shit legal trouble. Oh, and he got kicked off the team.

"Seen this?" Coach handed me his phone. A Facebook post appeared, obviously from Greg:

'You all know about me and little Jeff. What, are you all shocked? You knew about me for the past three years. And you gotta be kidding if you think I'm the only one. I know for a fact there are ten other gay guys near the top of swimming in this state: Mickey Kovac, Oliver LaRue, Zander Stevenson, …'

My mouth went dry. The post went on:

'There are gay athletes all over the country. Hell, what about Jason Collins or Michael Sam? You see anyone getting in trouble over any of them? No. Those other guys? They're swimming at states this week. But me, the best swimmer in the state? Not there. It's not a crime to be gay. It's not a crime to be a gay athlete. I'm still the best, and everyone knows it…'

I stopped reading there. I handed the phone back to Coach. I didn't want to face the conversation we were about to have.

"Look at me Zander," he said. It was not a request. He fixed me with a steady gaze. "Is it true?"

No point in dodging the question, delaying by asking him to clarify, or anything else. I had a choice: lie and hide, or tell the truth. The truth would have consequences, and not just for me. You would be affected too. But I already knew the costs of hiding – misery, isolation, conflict – and in that moment, I saw I could lose you. That cost was too high.

I nodded slowly.

"How long have you known?" he asked quietly.

"For certain? Since last spring."

Coach made a face. "And that boy, what's his name? Andy? The one with the scars you've been teaching to swim? He's more than just a friend, isn't he?"

I nodded again.

He passed his hand over his face and sighed deeply. "Zander, you've put me in a hell of a position."

I felt sick. Was Coach about to dump me from the program? Get me in trouble? Parade me in front of the school board? It wasn't fair. What had I done wrong? Maybe Greg was right.

I opened my mouth to protest, but he cut me off.

"Don't get me wrong," Coach continued, "I don’t give a shit about what team you play for, I really don't. My observation is that you're a great kid, Zander, and who you love doesn't change that." He paused while I processed that. He was okay with me being gay?

"But look at it from my position, Zander. Think about it, knowing about this," he added, tapping the phone with his index finger. "For the last week, you and your…boyfriend? Boyfriend. I've gotten up early and opened the pool specially for the two of you, and left you pretty much unsupervised for the past week."

And I did think about it. Apart from that one, incredible kiss in the pool, we'd been angels, especially for a pair of gay boys in love. But if somebody confronted Coach about it, he'd only have our word for it. He'd be on the hook for whatever speculation somebody wanted to make.

”I'm in a bind, Zander," Coach said. "Can you really tell me that you two haven't been doing things you shouldn't every morning?"

Stung, I spoke up. "We haven't done anything except swim," I said.

"So why the private lessons?" Coach asked.

"The scars. Andy's dad used to beat him… and his back…" I shrugged.

"I've gotten a glimpse," Coach replied softly. "Are they really bad? Is he embarrassed about them?"

"It's not just that," I said. "It's that Andy hates being asked about them. That brings up some seriously bad memories, I think." That was an understatement. I never want to see you curled up in panic or pain again.

Coach nodded. His expression was less severe, less worried. "So you’re doing it to spare him the pain?"

"Yeah, basically. That's it."

Coach pondered for a few moments. "Like I said, you're a good guy, Zander. Your boyfriend is lucky to have you."

The silence between us lingered as we watched the cars on our left crawl past.

I took a deep breath. "So do Andy and I show up early for lessons tomorrow?"

Coach waited a long time to answer. "Yes. You two show up just like last week. I'll figure something out. And no monkey business." He cracked a small smile for the first time. He put his hand on my shoulder and rose. "I appreciate your being honest with me, Zander. Thank you for trusting me with this."

He moved back down the aisle to his seat, leaving me alone with my thoughts.

So now I was really and truly out. I looked around and realized I'd been given a lot of space. Nobody behind me or ahead of me. I wondered how many people on the bus already knew. Greg's post would detonate on swim teams all across the state in the next forty eight hours. Nine other guys at nine other schools would be going through what I felt. Not much comfort in that, but a little. The only good thing was that the season was over; no more swim meets until next year. But that hardly mattered, a bunch of us who swam also ran track. We'd be together again starting…the next day.

School the next morning looked like it would be a minefield for both you and me.

Mom and dad knew already. It wouldn't be a shock to them. But the news would probably set tongues flapping all around town. I wondered how long it would be until the shocking rumor that the Stevenson boy was gay got back to my sister Carol – she still talked to friends in town, even though she was married and moved away. And if it got back to her, it wouldn't take more than an hour for my brother Frank and big sister Maria to know. And from them, to my grandparents. And so on.

How would they take the news that their little brother was gay? That the baby grandson was a fag? It couldn't be good, especially if they heard it through the grapevine. Why hadn't I told Carol and Frank at Christmas? I kicked myself for letting it go, even though Mom and Dad agreed to let me take my time in coming out to the rest of the family.

I stared out the window at the snow and the cars alongside, ignoring my phone, stewing over what to do. Eventually, it stopped snowing, but the traffic still appeared to be as snarled as ever. Finally, as darkness fell over the world, I arrived at a decision. Just about everyone on the bus was asleep, or zoned out listening to music. I pulled out my phone, and stared at it for a moment, then moved my thumb.

My grandfather's number appeared on the screen. A flick of finger, and the sound of a connection being made. Three rings, and the old man's voice in my ear.

"Hello?" His voice at once familiar, and intimidating.

I hesitate to speak. "Gramps? It's Zander."

"Zander, hello! Great to hear from you, boy. How are you?" The bluff, hearty voice sounded over the speaker.

"Fine, Gramps. I'm calling from my cell, on my way back from swimming at states."

"How'd you do?" The old man was always interested in whatever sports I was in.

"OK, I guess. But that's not why I called." I was trying to speak low, even though nobody was likely to overhear.

"So what can I do for you, boy?"

I could change my mind. Last chance to chicken out. Deep breath. "Gramps, there's something you and Gram need to know. I'm gay." There. It was done.

Silence on the other end.

"Zander? I don't think I got that." He sounded confused.

"I said I'm gay, Gramps," I repeated.

"What? You telling me you're a homo? A queer, boy?" So he had heard me after all. I hated hearing those words from his mouth.

"Yeah, Gramps. That's what I'm saying."

More silence for a few moments. "I don't see how you can say that. You swim. You run. For god's sake, you fish and hunt. You're an athlete. How can you be…a queer?" Gramps' voice sounded genuinely pained.

"I'm sorry, Gramps," I got out, trying not to cry. This was the man who taught me how to bait a hook. The man who greeted every swimming race as a triumph. The man who showed me how to draw and design so that I could build. He believed in me. And now I'd let him down.

"I just can't believe it," he said, almost to himself.

"Why not, Gramps?" I asked plaintively. "Why not? Everything you said is true. I do all those things you say; why can't you believe that this other thing is true about me, too?"

There was more quiet on his end. Finally, "Zander. You sure about this?"

"Yeah, Gramps. I'm sure."

"Okay," the old man responded eventually. "Now I want you to listen to me, boy. This is a bit of a shock, and I'm having trouble gathering it all in. It's not what I'd see you choose, that's for sure. But. You're my grandson. I still love you. I don't understand it, and I'm not altogether happy, but I still love you. You hear me?"

"Thanks, Gramps. I hear you." I relaxed a little. Being gay wasn't a choice, but I wasn't going to argue that point with my grandfather right then.

"Have you told your parents?"

"Yeah, Gramps. They know."

"Do you want me to tell Gram?" he asked.

"Yes, please. Just tell her I'm gay, not queer," I managed.

"Huh. Okay, Zander, I'll do that. Remember what I said, all right?"

"I love you, too, Gramps." We disconnected.

I took a deep breath. It could have gone a lot worse. While courage remained, another flick of a finger brought up my other grandmother, Nonna Costanza. Mom's mother. Italian.

Again, the sound of the phone ringing on the other end.

"Yes?" Nonna's voice in the speaker sounded older than I remembered.

"Nonna, it's Zander. Your grandson," I added for clarification. I'd forgotten how many grandchildren she actually had.

"Sandro? Is that you?" She never called me 'Zander,' or even 'Alexander' or 'Garrett.' Always the Italian contraction, 'Sandro.'

"Yes, Nonna. Sandro," I confirmed.

"So, you are well? There is a problem?" she asked.

"I'm fine, Nonna. But there is something I want to tell you." Now that I'd done it once, telling someone else was a little easier.

"What is it?"

"Nonna, I'm gay."

"Say that again, Sandro, I didn't hear."

"I said I'm gay, Nonna. That means…"

"I know what this means, Sandro," she interrupted gently, "I just didn't hear you the first time."

There was quiet for a moment.

"You decide this when, Sandro?" she asked.

"Since last year, Nonna. Last spring," I admitted.

"You know this for a whole year, Sandro? So why you call me to tell me this? Why now?" she demanded.

"Nonna, I was afraid to tell you. I was scared to tell anyone. But somebody else found out and posted something on the internet. So, I didn't want you to hear about it from anyone else but me. I wanted to tell you myself," I told her.

"You afraid to tell me before, but not now? Why?" she demanded sharply.

My breath caught in my throat for a moment. "Because…because I was afraid of what you might think. That you might not…like me anymore."

Silence from the phone. I wondered if she had heard. Then her voice, soft and caressing, even over the poor cell reception: "Sandro mio, you really think I stop loving you because of this?"

Now it was my turn to be silent. Ashamed.

Again, Nonna's voice broke the quiet. "You like other boys, then Sandro?"

"Yes, Nonna. I do."

"You have someone special you like?" she asked, slyly.

I couldn't help smiling at that. Just like my Nonna Costanza to ask. "Yes, Nonna. I have someone special. His name is Andy. And he's strong, and courageous, and he's adorable. He likes animals, Nonna, so mom thinks he's great. And he's so smart, and he doesn't even know it. I love him," I blurted it all out.

"You love him?" she cried out, surprised. "You’re so young, just like your mother," Nonna teased. "You didn't meet him in church, did you?"

"No, Nonna. I met Andy in school," I explained.

"And his family? Who are they?"

I hesitated. "Andy has no family. His father used to beat him and his mom ran away. He's got nobody but us."

"Nobody but us?" Nonna asked sharply.

I realized I'd said more than I meant to. "Andy's got nobody. Nobody at all. Mom and Dad and I kind of adopted Andy. He lives at our house."

"You take him in before or after he's your…your what? Boyfriend?" she asked.

"After, Nonna. I didn't know about his family or anything until after I fell in love with him," I told her.

"Santa Maria, Madre Dio," she sighed, "just like your mother and father. So you love him. God help you. Are you behaving with him? No sex?"

"Nonna!" I gasped.

"What, you think I don't know anything about the world, Sandro? Eh? You think I stopped living in 1970? Tell me. You behaving?" This was the Italian grandmother I remembered. I knew she had grilled my siblings about their various loves, too.

"Yes, Nonna, we're good. No sex."

At least not yet. My daydreams in the shower that very morning were pretty hot. The thought of sex with you, of the time when we could be together, flashed into my mind. I felt myself getting hard. I didn't tell Nonna that I wanted to misbehave with you. Or how.

"Good boy," she said. "Now, let me talk to your mother."

"I can't, Nonna. I'm calling from my cell phone. I'm on a bus right now."

"Fine, Sandro. I call her myself. You were good to tell me, Sandro. I'm glad you found someone who makes you happy. Now make sure you make him happy, too."

"I will, Nonna," I said. And I vowed that I would do just that. Make you happy.

"Be good, now, and remember, te amo, bambino mio. Addio, bello," I heard her add mischievously before hanging up.

Another deep breath. And relief. I respected my grandparents. They needed to know. My siblings were another matter. Maria and Carol took the news easily; Carol actually squealed so loud I had to cover the speaker on my phone with my hand. She was happy for me, couldn't wait to meet you, Andy, couldn't believe I'd been holding out on her. Maria was more distant, but I expected that – we're twelve years apart, after all.

Frank was more like Gramps in his denial – I could practically see him shaking his head as I told him, not wanting to believe what he was hearing. But at least he cracked a joke, late in our conversation.

"How the hell am I gonna corrupt you now? It's not like I know how to set you up to lose your virginity," he huffed in mock annoyance.

But when he let me go, he promised his support, if not his love. That was Frank all over.

Not long after I finished my phone calls, I noticed the bus was pulling off the highway. Funny how you don't notice things when you're deep in conversation. It took all of fifteen minutes before I was putting my bag in the back of Coach's car, and he was driving us back to Blackburn. Home. To you.

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  On 1/27/2016 at 7:34 AM, Puppilull said:

Anxiety indeed! I was like 'They're gonna crash, they're gonna crash!' all throughout the chapter. An abrupt outing and Greg really should handle his sex life a bit differently. Good thing Z seems fine.

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Greg's actions were petulant and inexcusable. His sex life is his own business, but he can't hurt others along the way. But he did. Zander seemed to weather coming out to his grands (farfar and mormor?) and sibs about as well as anyone could expect. Nobody crashed; no moose on the highway. But plenty still to be anxious about. Thanks for your review, and for continuing to read Andy's journal.

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  On 1/27/2016 at 6:50 PM, Lisa said:

Wow, what a chapter! I had anxiety, thinking Zander's bus was going to crash because of the snow! Thank God he made it back ok.

 

His family is terrific. Even if they don't really understand it, they are supporting Zander, and they still love him. Which of course should never change anyway, and to me, it's unfathomable that a family member would stop loving a relative because he or she is gay. That's just ridiculous. IMO Unfortunately, I know it happens way too often.

 

Just like it's unfathomable that Andy's sperm donor and his "uncle" abused him like that.

 

Greg is an ass to out these other kids. And on FB no less!

 

I'm glad Andy was able to speak with the priest openly. Oh, did he ever go back and finish Mrs. M's shoveling? lol

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You share Andy's anxiety completely. Zander's family is terrific - like Zander himself. I agree that it's hard to believe that family would be so unsupportive, but heaven knows it happens far too often. But not this time. Greg was behaving like a petulant child caught out at something - and it was something a little more serious than a minor scrape. Being able to actually talk with Fr. Brewer was important to Andy. He's exploring his own feeling about his past, and on his own, too. And yes, he did finish the shoveling! Thanks again for your reviews, and for reading along in Andy's journal.

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  On 1/28/2016 at 2:07 PM, Mikiesboy said:

Oh when will straights figure it out, gay people are everywhere, doing the same things they do. They swim, run, play all sports, breathe and eat. Time to get over it. Gay people have always been here and always will. Just let us be!

 

This chapter pissed me off. Church, god? Yeah Andy that's the god that let it happen! Been there, done that don't believe it, never will. The god excuses, I could write a book.

 

If this is where this story is going...I won't be.

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As always, thank you, Tim for your review. I appreciate your honesty. You say it far better than I can - gay people are everywhere so stop being surprised about it. Andy is finding his own way, asking his own questions. I fear I annoyed you in the process, which I regret. Thanks for reading Andy's story.

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Thank you for another awesome chapter. As always, I thoroughly enjoyed reading it.

 

As with the previous chapter, I especially enjoyed all the interactions between the characters. Great characters and great character development.

 

I liked the way you revisited themes from "Believe". (Chapter 42?) I tend to be cynical and atheistic, bit I think you handled the church scene well. Just enough religious thought to convey the ideas, but not so much as to be borring. And if Andy can find solace and/or meaning in the church, more power to him. Clearly he seeks both.

 

Andy was too cute impatiently waiting for Zander. I felt bad for him.

 

Outed on Facebook! I ALMOST wanted to laugh. And Zander notices that he has ample personal space on the bus. I guess Monday will be interesting.

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  On 1/28/2016 at 7:31 PM, true said:

Thank you for another awesome chapter. As always, I thoroughly enjoyed reading it.

 

As with the previous chapter, I especially enjoyed all the interactions between the characters. Great characters and great character development.

 

I liked the way you revisited themes from "Believe". (Chapter 42?) I tend to be cynical and atheistic, bit I think you handled the church scene well. Just enough religious thought to convey the ideas, but not so much as to be borring. And if Andy can find solace and/or meaning in the church, more power to him. Clearly he seeks both.

 

Andy was too cute impatiently waiting for Zander. I felt bad for him.

 

Outed on Facebook! I ALMOST wanted to laugh. And Zander notices that he has ample personal space on the bus. I guess Monday will be interesting.

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Thanks for reading this chapter. I appreciate what you have said about character development; Andy and Zander and Garrett and Monica get a little deeper here. Not sure if Andy is seeking solace - meaning is probably more like it - and maybe beginning to look for some answers. It isn't clear that he found them, but at least Fr. Brewer took Andy seriously. Too many things happen of FB these days; Greg certainly behaved petulantly. I'm glad you thought Andy was cute; waiting must have been very difficult. Thanks very much for your review.

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Another of my favorite chapters, sorry about not leaving a review before this. Greg is an asshole, but we always knew that. I can understand his frustration at being denied his chance to swim, and he may be correct that some people would kick him out for being gay. However, I'm thinking part of the reason is he's somewhat of a sexual thrill seeker, liking to persuade guys to have sex in the showers. Nothing wrong with seducing if it's consensual, but he should have realized what the consequences would be if he's caught. And the outing of other swimmers simply means he's losing all the sympathy and support he might have had from them. Stupid idiot. :pissed:
I can see why Tim objects to the whole church thing, but I liked how Andy confronted the priest with his question. To me it's simply another way of working through his issues, and at least the priest didn't try to sell him any crap ideas about God doing things for the best. He very clearly said God did not condone evil stuff. We all know there are a lot of bigoted churches and religions so it's fine to show the exceptions. Just like with the coach.

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  On 10/29/2016 at 7:22 AM, Timothy M. said:

Another of my favorite chapters, sorry about not leaving a review before this. Greg is an asshole, but we always knew that. I can understand his frustration at being denied his chance to swim, and he may be correct that some people would kick him out for being gay. However, I'm thinking part of the reason is he's somewhat of a sexual thrill seeker, liking to persuade guys to have sex in the showers. Nothing wrong with seducing if it's consensual, but he should have realized what the consequences would be if he's caught. And the outing of other swimmers simply means he's losing all the sympathy and support he might have had from them. Stupid idiot. :pissed:

I can see why Tim objects to the whole church thing, but I liked how Andy confronted the priest with his question. To me it's simply another way of working through his issues, and at least the priest didn't try to sell him any crap ideas about God doing things for the best. He very clearly said God did not condone evil stuff. We all know there are a lot of bigoted churches and religions so it's fine to show the exceptions. Just like with the coach.

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So glad this one was a favorite. Greg was indeed blind to the consequences and effects of his actions. Sadly, I have met quite a few people who can't see beyond their own points of view or their own self justifications. Greg won't have many friends left in swimming, not for a while, and not in that state...thanks also for the commentary on Andy's questions for Father Brewer. He seems to be trying to piece together a new way of seeing his life, certainly.

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Parker I think you might've outdone yourself with this chapter. I feel bad for Zander as the news on Facebook put out by another swimmer who was caught at school having sex with a younger boy and had to leave the swimming team for his school, then posts the name's of other gay swimmers. After Zander's coach talked to him about the post he admitted that it was true, the coach asked about Andy being more than a friend and Zander said he was. The coach then asked why the private lessons and if they were doing anything other than swimming Zander assured the coach that all they were doing was swimming. Zander told the coach about Andy being a victim of abuse by his dad which left him with the scars on his back and he's uncomfortable being asked about them. After talking to the coach Zander decided that he should make some calls to let his grandparents and siblings know that he was gay. Monica's mom asked more questions than anyone else also asking if there was anyone special in his life and he told her about Andy and also that he was living with them because he has no one else. Zander's sister squealed loud enough that he had to cover the speaker of the phone she was so excited for him. I'm glad that the coach isn't telling Zander he can't be on the swim team because of his being gay, I'm also glad that the coach is going to allow Zander to still teach Andy privately to swim. I hope that Zander can tell Andy why he had to do what he did by telling his extended family about his being gay. 

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@Butcher56: You were very kind in your remarks, and I very much appreciate them. Zander getting outed that way was wrong; it was the result of a foolish and petulant young man. What makes Zander so fortunate is the accepting community and family that surrounds him. The coach simply doesn't care about his sexuality - but he cares deeply about the sense of propriety that affects everyone. His siblings are supportive in different degrees, but they love him still, as do his grandparents. His Italian Grandmother is quite a character. Many thanks for reading Andy's journal to this point.

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  On 3/17/2021 at 8:09 PM, chris191070 said:

Greg was wrong to out the other guys like that, he could cause them all sorts of problems. At least Zander was able to come out to his grandparents, brother and sister on his terms.

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Greg was like so many self-centered individuals: he needed some kind of self justification. Zander and the others he named were just collateral damage. As you say, at least he could tell his extended family before the news got to them from some other source.

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  On 1/26/2016 at 8:40 PM, Parker Owens said:

Greg's actions are those of a young man who is having trouble facing up to the trouble he may have caused. His response was essentially petulant. Zander acted in a sense of self-preservation, too, but also to spare his relatives the pain of being surprised by the news. I agree that he might have called Andy and his parents first. That he chose not to probably illustrates how surprised and rattled he was.

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Hi @Parker Owens, I agree with what you have said in this comment.  I only wonder how different the punishment would have been for the coach and Greg if this had been a heterosexual pairing.  

  On 1/26/2016 at 5:35 PM, spike382 said:

I gotta say my breakout favorite character this chapter definitely had to be Nonna. She made me laugh and I just love how she encourages Zander and immediately embraces this new information as being a part of him. Already with the relationship advice! I loved her!

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I'm 100% behind Spike on Nonna.  I wish I had a grandmother like her.  The other family at least lets Zander know that being gay does not stop them from loving him.  That was great!

I hope that Zander's actions won't upset Andy too much.  Zander could have waited and talked to Andy first.  

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  On 9/28/2022 at 5:22 PM, raven1 said:

Hi @Parker Owens, I agree with what you have said in this comment.  I only wonder how different the punishment would have been for the coach and Greg if this had been a heterosexual pairing.  

I'm 100% behind Spike on Nonna.  I wish I had a grandmother like her.  The other family at least lets Zander know that being gay does not stop them from loving him.  That was great!

I hope that Zander's actions won't upset Andy too much.  Zander could have waited and talked to Andy first.  

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That's an interesting speculation on what might have happened if Greg had been with a girl in the locker rooms, instead of a boy.  I suspect the outcry would have been somewhat more muted, though there would undoubtedly have been repercussions. Nonna was such a fun character to write - everyone should have a grandmother like her. I really appreciate your continuing comments. Thank you!

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  On 2/7/2023 at 6:39 PM, Dan South said:

Zander’s POV makes me melt every time. Hard to be too angry with Greg. What he did is way beyond ‘stubborn boys’ but it’s very believable that a wounded teen would lash out and take others down with him. 

Zander leaping into action, doing damage control, says so much about him, his integrity. Stubborn boy.

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Yes. In his way, Zander is as stubborn and good hearted as his boyfriend. Greg lashing out is both understandable and difficult. Outing ten other guys is so uncool. A whole different story might be what becomes of Greg’s swimming and college career.  

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As for Greg, totally immature behavior but given he got caught already proving he doesn’t make the greatest decisions, I’m not at all shocked. 
 

I think, if I’m Andy, I’m not mad at Zander either for sharing a little more of my story without my consent to the one person who had absolutely the most right to ask. My first thought to Coach’s question if Zander was gay, was does it matter? Anyone can say anything on the internet so it must be true right? As for the rest of Zander’s family, a mixed bag of reactions but a equal amount of affirmation which is what is most needed.

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  On 12/6/2023 at 4:19 AM, SilentandBroken said:

As for Greg, totally immature behavior but given he got caught already proving he doesn’t make the greatest decisions, I’m not at all shocked. 
 

I think, if I’m Andy, I’m not mad at Zander either for sharing a little more of my story without my consent to the one person who had absolutely the most right to ask. My first thought to Coach’s question if Zander was gay, was does it matter? Anyone can say anything on the internet so it must be true right? As for the rest of Zander’s family, a mixed bag of reactions but a equal amount of affirmation which is what is most needed.

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I’m with you: Nonna was a fun character to write. I liked her right away. The coach is in a delicate  position, and even more so since this story was written. A militantly anti-Gay school board could make real trouble for the coach, let alone Andy and Zander. Zander’s goal was to regain a measure of control over who and when he tells his own story. He’s done that, at least. 

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  On 12/6/2023 at 11:30 AM, Parker Owens said:

I’m with you: Nonna was a fun character to write. I liked her right away. The coach is in a delicate  position, and even more so since this story was written. A militantly anti-Gay school board could make real trouble for the coach, let alone Andy and Zander. Zander’s goal was to regain a measure of control over who and when he tells his own story. He’s done that, at least. 

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The way Coach made eye contact with Andy as he was leaving kinda made wonder if he was gay too given the statement he made about how hot Zander was.

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