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Forgive me if none of this makes sense because I'm beyond drunk right now. I have played so many games of beer pong that I can't remem ber the number that I've gone through.

 

Anyway, today was the first time that Iv'e flat out asked a guy if he was gay. It's a long story, but the short version is: he's gay and interested in me (or so the last time I checked which was last night). Well I was very interested in him and we had a date planned for tonight where we were just going to watch a movie and hang out, but he got called into work. But he never responded to my texts I sent earlier so I'm kinda paranoid that maybe something made him lose interest in me. I'm not sure but it bugs the hell out of me because it was the first date I would have had in over 4 months. I don't want to be the type of person tha annoys the hell out of you from the beginning by always wanting to text/talk to you, but I dont want to just sit here and do nothing. I'm sick of being the one to just sit and wait for things to happen. I want to change that and become someone that actually makes those things happen.

 

But I'm beyond drunk and it's taken me at least 20 minutes to write this and fix my typos and grammar so I'm going to pass out. I just hope my paranoia was for nothing and he really is interested because that really would mean a lot to me.

 

Good night everyone. And a special goodnight to Bruce :)

 

Joe

(Who is so beyond wasted that it's not even funny)

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Hang in there Joe, and maybe give him the benefit of the doubt on this one. Some employers have policies in place regarding cellphone use at work. The facility I work at, the policy is that the cellphone is to be turned off while working. During break and lunch times, staff may use them.

 

Not all that long ago, there was a Nurse Aide who was in the DON's office. While there, her phone rang and she answered it. The reason she was in the DON's office to begin with was she was being fired for her excessive use of her cellphone while working.

 

If he's interested in you, he'll be in touch.

 

Jan

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JSmith

Right, but the thing is... for the past 3 days he's texted me all throughout work. And he hasn't called/texted me at all today yet. Where I work we can't use them unless we're on break (or we sneak away from the managers) so I guess that's good for me because I won't check it every 5 seconds.

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icedfire

If he's as interested in you as it seems, he might be going through a case of cold feet...especially seeing as how it's you he's interested in :)

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AFriendlyFace

Hey Joe! :)

 

Yeah, maybe he just didn't get a chance to respond. I know some days at work I have plenty of time to text and other days I can't even squeeze one or two out.

 

Not all that long ago, there was a Nurse Aide who was in the DON's office. While there, her phone rang and she answered it. The reason she was in the DON's office to begin with was she was being fired for her excessive use of her cellphone while working.

LOL, then I suppose at that point it didn't really matter :P

 

If he's as interested in you as it seems, he might be going through a case of cold feet...especially seeing as how it's you he's interested in :)

I was thinking the same thing; give it some time and see what happens

 

:hug:

Good luck!

Kevin

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C James
I don't remember writing that...

 

Joe, I think it bears pointing out that what you write drunk has fewer errors than what many of use write while sober! :2thumbs:

 

One point on the text messages though: I'm not familier with texting, I've never used it, but I do recall receiving a complaint from someone that I'd never answered her text message. As far as I know, my phone didn't have the capability to send one or receive one.

 

So, is it possible that he never received it? What if his phone was off or he wasn't in an area that would allow reception?

(I have no clue how text messages actually work, just speculating based on the complaint I received.)

 

But, congrats at having the guts to ask him, way to go! I hope it works out for you..

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writeincode
I don't remember writing that...

 

Joe, I think it bears pointing out that what you write drunk has fewer errors than what many of use write while sober! :2thumbs:

 

One point on the text messages though: I'm not familier with texting, I've never used it, but I do recall receiving a complaint from someone that I'd never answered her text message. As far as I know, my phone didn't have the capability to send one or receive one.

 

So, is it possible that he never received it? What if his phone was off or he wasn't in an area that would allow reception?

(I have no clue how text messages actually work, just speculating based on the complaint I received.)

 

But, congrats at having the guts to ask him, way to go! I hope it works out for you..

If this is so you dont wont him as a boyfriend because what kind of teenager (i added teenager for tactfulness) can't sms. Its social suicide. Do you want a socially suicidal associate? I assume not.

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JSmith

Heh well I guess I should have mentioned that Bruce is already out of the picture. We stopped talking to each other pretty much unless we see each other at school. Even then its only a "hey whats up" and then keep walking.

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