Definately not the right thing to do. No one can know what your internal dialogue is or what your personal situation is vis a vis your family, friends or work situation. So putting something out there like your sexual preference without your knowledge/permission is the worse thing someone can do. It puts a whole new complication on an already complicated situation, especially if you are not out.
Coming out is something so personal, so intimate that you should have the right of total control of it.
Getting to the point in your life where someone finding out you are gay won't effect you is different for each of us. We deserve the respect of our friends and family to decide when that is.
Of course the question of hypocrisy of public figures raises a whole different question. And I think it should be treated as a different question. Taking a public stand, making a political point or promoting/supporting a law on the basis of hypocrisy is wrong and should be outed. But is it possible to "out" the hypocrisy without outing the person?
Hey moderator! How come his post repeated?