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the moral of the story? :-) just kidding. loved reading it. it may not offer any remedies, any solutions, any causes even. but well put forth. especially liked the following portions:- "It's not about will power. There is no will or power." "It's all bullshit of course. Once I had the bright idea of taping the intellectual conversations that I was a part of high and it it just sounded like a bunch of f**ked up people babbling." "The coke whores are gone and you are the same self-doubting, pussy, wimp that you always were. You are just a lot poorer for the experience and... you want more."

Honestly i dont get why "I" wud create a topic, without any real prupose. But then thats my way of thinking, and if you wish to ask a question purely to satisfy your curiosity, I have no rights to question your question. And trust me that was never my intention. Well, you didnt ask the question in the first place Thanks

Yes Robyn, And I certainly dont feel bad about you asking this question, if thats what you meant. Its just that I dont know what the point is. Will it help you in any way, to know what preference people have? will it make you feel better about yourself?

Couldnt it be argued that the opposite of that is also the same. ?? Think about it. I mean I really dont want to put forward any opinion, as to "whether looks matter or not". Because to me, thats just a silly meaningless question.There is no GOOD AIM whatsoever, in asking that question. I mean what good can come off it anyway. Its either the people who are disgruntled with their looks and how people treat them. Or its about people who like to show off that they dont go for looks.

HAPPY BRITHDAY NIGHTHOWL !!!

Sure I do, thank you so much for the link, Its great to observe them.

I had visited this site a long time back. I dont remember if I had read any of the stories then. On my return a couple of months back, the first story I read was a very good one. I dont remember the title, its about a ghost train on a mountainous track. :-)

Well then, what was the 3rd option about ??? We already had the 2nd option for NO.

Belated Wishes Jamie, Hope you had a wonderful day!!!

Cool advice, also it depends on "where in the story" you are. You certainly dont want to read through a lot of unrelated details in the middle of something gripping. Althoug of course, one can argue that details can add to that effect for some readers. I guess you should, like mentioned earlier, try your hands at a lot of different styles, until you discover something you are comfortable with.

Welcome to GA Bob And thumbs up for being courageous

^^Cool Pics, like to save them all :-)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY NEPHY !!! WISH YOU A FUN-FILLED SPECIAL DAY

the details r fantastic, those who dont want, they can always skim through it, atleast the ppl who love to read it all, have the option to do so. so my suggestion, keep the details.

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