Perhaps you can't understand because you're not caring for two declining elderly parents. I'll just leave it at I hope that if you never find yourself in similiar circumstance.
If all goes to plan Mum will be boarding a plane this evening and flying to be with me in PA. The plane departs Myrtle Beach at 5:12pm and arrives in Allentown at 6:51pm. After a drive of ~90 minutes we'll be back to my modest little home. 😃