Is that what you call it when you greedily claim all the actors in your favorite BL videos? I simply offered sancutary to a poor lost boy before he returned to someone who would cherish him.
Whether intentional or not, you discarded him. Poor guy was wandering lost until Mum and I gave him sanctuary and milk and cookies (Double Dark Chocolate Milanos) until he could safely be sent home to Spike. Where he's remained, except for brief visits for more milk and cookies. Mum is rather fond of him.